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<li><b>Birthplace</b> – R. Saadia, Ibn Ezra, and Radak render "מוֹלַדְתִּי" as birthplace.<fn>Ibn Ezra and Radak identify Avraham's birthplace ("מוֹלַדְתִּי") as Ur Kasdim, but they differ as to its relationship to "אַרְצִי". It appears that Ibn Ezra thinks that the servant would have proceeded to search for a wife from Ur if he had not succeeded in Charan, while Radak (24:10) seems to believe that Rivka's family lived in Ur rather than Charan (and that "אַרְצִי" and "מוֹלַדְתִּי" refer to the same place). [See Geography for other cases where medieval commentators were hamstrung by the limited geographical information they possessed.] Our verse is one of the central prooftexts in the debate between Ibn Ezra and Ramban on Bereshit 11:28 regarding the identity of Avraham's birthplace (see <a href="$">Avraham's Migrations</a> and see <a href="$">"מוֹלֶדֶת"</a>), and see Ramban below.</fn> However, R. Saadia and Radak add that it was understood that this was where Avraham's family was to be found.<fn>Ibn Ezra, on the other hand, appears to maintain that Avraham did not give instructions that the woman should be from his family, and this was only the servant's initiative.</fn></li> | <li><b>Birthplace</b> – R. Saadia, Ibn Ezra, and Radak render "מוֹלַדְתִּי" as birthplace.<fn>Ibn Ezra and Radak identify Avraham's birthplace ("מוֹלַדְתִּי") as Ur Kasdim, but they differ as to its relationship to "אַרְצִי". It appears that Ibn Ezra thinks that the servant would have proceeded to search for a wife from Ur if he had not succeeded in Charan, while Radak (24:10) seems to believe that Rivka's family lived in Ur rather than Charan (and that "אַרְצִי" and "מוֹלַדְתִּי" refer to the same place). [See Geography for other cases where medieval commentators were hamstrung by the limited geographical information they possessed.] Our verse is one of the central prooftexts in the debate between Ibn Ezra and Ramban on Bereshit 11:28 regarding the identity of Avraham's birthplace (see <a href="$">Avraham's Migrations</a> and see <a href="$">"מוֹלֶדֶת"</a>), and see Ramban below.</fn> However, R. Saadia and Radak add that it was understood that this was where Avraham's family was to be found.<fn>Ibn Ezra, on the other hand, appears to maintain that Avraham did not give instructions that the woman should be from his family, and this was only the servant's initiative.</fn></li> | ||
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− | <point><b>Were the Canaanites a backup option?</b> Rashi<fn>See Rashi on 24:8 and 24:37, and see also Rashi's comments on Kiddushin 61b which imply the same (as noted by Tosafot there).</fn> says that if the servant did not succeed in finding a wife from Avraham's family, he was to take a wife from the Canaanite daughters of Aner, Eshkol and Mamre.<fn>See below that Ramban 24:8 notes that Rashi (on 24:8) contradicts Bereshit Rabbah, and for Ri and Ramban's alternate interpretation of 24:8. See also Rashi on 24:49 that the servant would have found a wife from the families of Lot or Yishmael. On the issue of Patriarchal observance of the mitzvot, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot</a>.</fn> This is a viable possibility only because this approach views the focus as being on Avraham's | + | <point><b>Were the Canaanites a backup option?</b> Rashi<fn>See Rashi on 24:8 and 24:37, and see also Rashi's comments on Kiddushin 61b which imply the same (as noted by Tosafot there).</fn> says that if the servant did not succeed in finding a wife from Avraham's family, he was to take a wife from the Canaanite daughters of Aner, Eshkol and Mamre.<fn>See below that Ramban 24:8 notes that Rashi (on 24:8) contradicts Bereshit Rabbah, and for Ri and Ramban's alternate interpretation of 24:8. See also Rashi on 24:49 that the servant would have found a wife from the families of Lot or Yishmael. On the issue of Patriarchal observance of the mitzvot, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot</a>.</fn> This is a viable possibility only because this approach views the focus as being on Avraham's preference for family, rather than the demerits of the Canaanites.<fn>See also R"Y Bekhor Shor who interprets 24:3 as Avraham merely saying that there was no need for Yitzchak to marry a local Canaanite woman in order to inherit the land, rather than his having any objection to Yitzchak marrying a Canaanite woman. [R"Y Bekhor Shor apparently differentiates between our story and the parallel instructions given to Yaakov in Bereshit 28. In the latter case, the text is explicit that Canaanite wives were viewed negatively.]</fn></point> |
<point><b>The test at the well</b> – This position must grapple with the question of why, upon his arrival in Charan, the servant did not simply ask for Avraham's family,<fn>This is especially difficult for Josephus and Radak who assume that the servant was sent specifically for Rivka.</fn> as does Yaakov in Bereshit 29.<fn>See Shadal who raises this as an objection to this approach. Cf. Josephus and Ibn Ezra who appear to understand the test as a way for the servant to identify a woman from Avraham's family (who were known to be generous and kind-hearted). It is not clear, though, why he did not simply ask for the family.</fn> <br/> | <point><b>The test at the well</b> – This position must grapple with the question of why, upon his arrival in Charan, the servant did not simply ask for Avraham's family,<fn>This is especially difficult for Josephus and Radak who assume that the servant was sent specifically for Rivka.</fn> as does Yaakov in Bereshit 29.<fn>See Shadal who raises this as an objection to this approach. Cf. Josephus and Ibn Ezra who appear to understand the test as a way for the servant to identify a woman from Avraham's family (who were known to be generous and kind-hearted). It is not clear, though, why he did not simply ask for the family.</fn> <br/> | ||
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Version as of 22:19, 8 November 2023
Wanted: A Wife for Yitzchak
Exegetical Approaches
Overview
Commentators offer a variety of interpretations as to why Avraham sends his servant all the way to Mesopotamia rather than finding a suitable wife for Yitzchak from among his neighbors. Josephus and a number of the early medieval exegetes propose that Avraham wants to find a wife from his family. In contrast, the Keli Yekar and R. Hirsch focus on the potential negative influences from marrying a local woman whose idolatrous family is always nearby. Finally, Jubilees and many others stress the moral bankruptcy of the Canaanite people and the desire that Yitzchak's wife, in contrast, be of noble character. These different perspectives have important ramifications for understanding Avraham's portrait of the ideal wife for Yitzchak, how the servant's plan of action fit with Avraham's instructions, and how contradictions between the original story and the servant's retelling can be resolved.
Preference for Avraham's Relatives
The most important criterion in the search for a wife for Yitzchak was that she be from Avraham's family.
- Family – Rashbam defines "מוֹלַדְתִּי" as family.6 Thus, Avraham explicitly instructed his servant to find a wife from his family.
- Birthplace – R. Saadia, Ibn Ezra, and Radak render "מוֹלַדְתִּי" as birthplace.7 However, R. Saadia and Radak add that it was understood that this was where Avraham's family was to be found.8
- This position might suggest that the test was an innovation of the servant himself, who went beyond Avraham's requirements, and wanted to ensure that in addition to having family lineage,14 the future wife would also be of good character.15 Avraham might have ignored this aspect, being more concerned with the woman's religious potential than her character.16
- Additionally, the test would serve to convince Rivka's family that the marriage was Divinely ordained.17 Since there was a good chance that the chosen woman's family would not easily acquiesce to her moving to a foreign country, it was not enough that the servant simply look for a relative of Avraham, he also needed a Divine sign that could prove to the woman's family that she was destined by God to be Yitzchak's wife. The water test accomplished this goal, highlighting how the Divine hand guided Avraham's relative, Rivka, rather than anyone else, straight to the servant.18
Aversion to Having Local In-laws
Avraham wanted to ensure that Yitzchak and his family would not be influenced by his wife's family or have to contend with their possible future claims on his inheritance.
- Constant influence – According to Keli Yekar and R. Hirsch, although both the Canaanites and their Mesopotamian counterparts might have been somewhat equally deficient morally or religiously, the negative influence of local relatives is significantly greater than from those living far away.27 Keli Yekar also draws a parallel between Avraham's admonition that Yitzchak not marry a Canaanite woman and the Torah's later prohibition in Devarim 7 of marrying Canaanite women.
- Danger to inheritance – Chizkuni and Shadal focus instead on the problems caused by local in-laws with regards to Avraham's inheritance of Canaan. Chizkuni asserts that Avraham did not want anyone to say that his inheritance was due to his marriage to the Canaanites rather than being a gift from God.28 Shadal, in contrast, suggests that being related to the Canaanites would make it very difficult to later expel or eliminate them.29
- Birthplace – Chizkuni and R. Hirsch suggest that the word "מוֹלַדְתִּי" refers to Avraham's land or city.30 R. Hirsch, though, suggests that implicit in the usage of the word is Avraham's requirement that the woman also be from his family.
- Family – Shadal asserts that "מוֹלַדְתִּי" refers to Avraham's family but that Avraham set this as a preference rather than a requirement. As proof, he points to the fact that the servant devises the water test, a very inefficient way of finding a maiden from Avraham's family specifically.31
Search for a Wife of Noble Character
The most critical factor was that Yitzchak's wife have a generous and kind nature and be of upright moral character.