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Lack of Trust in Hashem?
 
Lack of Trust in Hashem?
<p>In Bereshit 32:7-8, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in Bereshit 28:15: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p>
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<p>In Bereshit 32:7-8, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in Bereshit 28:15: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p><ul>
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<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also Ibn Ezra, Radak, Ramban, R. Hirsch and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explain that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. R"Y Bekhor Shor,<fn>See also Ibn Ezra and the opinion rejected by Ramban.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
 
<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also Ibn Ezra, Radak, Ramban, R. Hirsch and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explain that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. R"Y Bekhor Shor,<fn>See also Ibn Ezra and the opinion rejected by Ramban.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
 
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also Radak who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also Radak who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
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<subcategory name="Subservience">
 
Subservience to Esav
 
Subservience to Esav
<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (Bereshit 33:3). Is it problematic to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p>
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<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (Bereshit 33:3). Is it problematic to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p><ul>
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<li>Praiseworthy – Zohar Vayishlakh 115a</li>
 
<li>Praiseworthy – Zohar Vayishlakh 115a</li>
 
<li>Necessary&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink></li>
 
<li>Necessary&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink></li>
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<category>Parents and Siblings
 
<category>Parents and Siblings
 
<subcategory>Favored by Rivka
 
<subcategory>Favored by Rivka
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a>&#160;shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).&#160; What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [To see why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see <a href="Why Bless Esav" data-aht="page">Why Bless Esav</a> and <a href="A Portrait of Esav" data-aht="page">A Portrait of Esav</a>.]</p>
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a>&#160;shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).&#160; What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [To see why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see <a href="Why Bless Esav" data-aht="page">Why Bless Esav</a> and <a href="A Portrait of Esav" data-aht="page">A Portrait of Esav</a>.]</p><ul>
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<li><b>The prophecy</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> clams that Rivka's preference for Yaakov was a direct result of the prophecy which granted him superior status to his brother.</li>
 
<li><b>The prophecy</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> clams that Rivka's preference for Yaakov was a direct result of the prophecy which granted him superior status to his brother.</li>
 
<li><b>Character</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Ralbag </a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 25:27-28</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>and&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:5</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> assert that Rivka's preference related to Yaakov's character; she saw in him both the traits of integrity and mercy.<fn>Hoil Moshe suggests that the brothers' choice of profession betrays the difference in their characters. Esav, the hunter, was a harsh and violent man, unmerciful to beast and thus, probably also to man, while Yaakov, the shepherd, was full of caring and mercy. Cf.&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who suggests that women in general like those who raise animals.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Character</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Ralbag </a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 25:27-28</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>and&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:5</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> assert that Rivka's preference related to Yaakov's character; she saw in him both the traits of integrity and mercy.<fn>Hoil Moshe suggests that the brothers' choice of profession betrays the difference in their characters. Esav, the hunter, was a harsh and violent man, unmerciful to beast and thus, probably also to man, while Yaakov, the shepherd, was full of caring and mercy. Cf.&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who suggests that women in general like those who raise animals.</fn></li>
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<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and<b> taking the blessing</b>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (Bereshit 32:7), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (Bereshit 33:4).</p>
 
<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and<b> taking the blessing</b>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (Bereshit 32:7), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (Bereshit 33:4).</p>
 
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<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, Rashi, Radak, R. Avraham b. HaRambam, Seforno and R. D"Z Hoffman.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in Sifrei Bemidbar 9:10 and Bemidbar Rabbah 3:13.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in Bereshit Rabbah 78:9, and similarly in Shir HaShirim Rabbah 7:5 and Shemot Rabbah 5:10.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example, Radak and Seforno.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See R. D"Z Hoffmann.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink></fn> assume that Esav was still angry and approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b> - Rashbam,<fn>See also Ibn Ezra's third commentary which is influenced by Rashbam, and the Hoil Moshe.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard. [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.] Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
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<li><b>Anger dissipated</b> - <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also Ibn Ezra's third commentary which is influenced by Rashbam, and the Hoil Moshe.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard. [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.] Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
 
<li><b>Esav's feelings ambiguous</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting.<fn>If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Esav's feelings ambiguous</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting.<fn>If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn></li>
 
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Yaakov – Overview

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Unique Traits

"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"

Bereshit 25 introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean?

Sheep Breeder

Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.  While Bereshit 30 speaks of a ploy done by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep, Bereshit 31 suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?

Miraculous Might?

When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.  two stories might question that assumption:

  • Removing the stone  – In Bereshit 29 we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.  However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.
  • Wrestling with angels? – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".  If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?

Possible Sins / Flaws

Sale of the Birthright

Bereshit 25 discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.  Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?  Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal?]

Taking the Blessing

Bereshit 27 describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.  How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?  Was he a willing or unwilling participant?   Were his actions justified?

Lack of Trust in Hashem?

In Bereshit 32:7-8, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,6 should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?

Subservience to Esav

Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (Bereshit 33:3). Is it problematic to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?

Parents and Siblings

Favored by Rivka

Bereshit 25:28 shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).  What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [To see why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see Why Bless Esav and A Portrait of Esav.]

Yaakov and Esav

See above regarding Yaakov's buying of the birthright and taking the blessing. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (Bereshit 32:7), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (Bereshit 33:4).

  • Still angry – The majority of commentators12 assume that Esav was still angry and approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.  They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere13 (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)14, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,15 or an act of Divine intervention.16
  • Anger dissipated - RashbamBereshit 32:7-8About R. Shemuel b. Meir,17 in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard. [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.] Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see Wrestling With Angels and Men and Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp.]
  • Esav's feelings ambiguous – R"Y Bekhor ShorBereshit 32:8About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.  It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting.18

Wives

Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"

In Bereshit 29:31, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding verse, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?

  • Preferred Rachel - Many commentaors19 assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, connoting only only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.20
  • Hated Leah – Bereshit Rabbah 71:2, Ramban and the Netziv, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.  Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.21

Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"

Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?"  Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?

  • Justified – Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:
    • Radak and R. Avraham b. HaRambam22 explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.23
    • Ramban,24 instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.  Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.
    • Finally, Akeidat Yitzchak has Yaakov upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".  Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.
  • Unjustified – Bereshit Rabbah 71:7 maintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"
  • Misunderstood – R"Y Bekhor Shor25 asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had only meant that he should take her maidservant and siire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.

Status of Bilhah and Zilpah

Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).  In Bereshit 35:22, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in 37:2 both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?  Did their status change over time?

  • Surrogate mothers –
  • Changing status – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.  See Reuven and Bilhah.

Children

Births of Yaakov's Children

A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule26 but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekehm, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.

Favoring Yosef

"כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ" – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "‎כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".‎ What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?

  • Similar to father – Bereshit Rabbah, Tanchuma, Targum Pseudo-Jonathan
  • Wise – Josephus, Targum Onkelos, Ibn Ezra, Radak
  • Served father – Ramban
  • Youngest – R. Avraham b. HaRambam and Shadal
  • Born after despairing of having a child by Rachel – Ralbag

"עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים" – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?

  • Show of love – Ralbag
  • Sign of leadership or chosen status – Seforno, HaKetav VeHaKabbalah, and R. Hirsch suggest that the cloak was a sign of stature. This reading might suggest that the siblings were not merely engaged in common sibling rivalry, but in a competition as to who was to be the "chosen son" and merit to continue the line of Avraham.27

Reuven and Bilhah

Bereshit 35:22 tells how Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? Thee verse shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?

Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekehm

Blessings

Menashe & Ephraim

Religious Identity

Oath at Beit El

Upon awakening after his dream in Biet El, Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה יְהֹוָה לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.  Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?  If the latter what is he promising to do?  Was Hashem not already his God?

  • Condition – Yaakov asks that hashem
  • Obligation– Yaakov promises

Comparisons