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<h1>Yaakov&#160;– Overview</h1>
 
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<subcategory>Oath at Beit El
 
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<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:18-22</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p><ul>
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<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:18-22</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵא-לֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱ-לֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p><ul>
<li><b>Condition</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
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<li><b>Condition</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
<li><b>Obligation</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
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<li><b>Obligation</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
 
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<li>According to <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, Yaakov promises that if Hashem watches over him, he will then devote himself to service of Hashem and no longer engage in other pursuits. <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, instead suggests that Yaakov is promising that he will worship Hashem in Israel specifically..</li>
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<li>According to <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, Yaakov promises that if Hashem watches over him, he will then devote himself to service of Hashem and no longer engage in other pursuits. <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, instead, suggests that Yaakov is promising that he will worship Hashem in Israel specifically..</li>
<li>One might more radically suggest that Yaakov was indeed unsure if Hashem had powers outside of Israel, or perhaps had questions regarding the oneness of Hashem in general. If so, for him belief in monotheism was a process, and not a given.&#160; See <a href="Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim" data-aht="page">Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim</a> for discussion of this possibility.</li>
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<li>One might more radically suggest that Yaakov was indeed unsure if Hashem had powers outside of Israel, or perhaps had questions regarding the oneness of Hashem in general. If so, for him belief in monotheism was a process and not a given.&#160; See <a href="Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim" data-aht="page">Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim</a> for discussion of this possibility.</li>
 
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<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p><ul>
 
<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p><ul>
 
<li>For a full discussion and sources, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot.</a></li>
 
<li>For a full discussion and sources, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot.</a></li>
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<subcategory>Yaakov's Dream
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<p>The dream of the ladder reaching heavenwards is one of the images most associated with Yaakov.&#160; What, though, did this dream connote and what might it teach about Yaakov's relationship to Hashem at the critical juncture in which he fled from his brother?&#160; [See <a href="Yaakov's Dream" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dream</a>.]</p><ul>
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<li><b>Message of consolation</b> – <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink> explains that the dream signified Hashem's providence over Yaakov. As such, the dream highlights how Yaakov, fearfully fleeing from his brother and venturing into the unknown, both needed and merited Hashem's encouragement and protection.</li>
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<li><b>Symbol of prayer&#160;</b>–&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit28-12-13" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit28-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:12-13</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> suggests that the dream is merely a visual representation of prayer. This might suggest, as Chazal claim, that before leaving Israel Yaakov had stopped at Beit El to pray to Hashem.</li>
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<li><b>Metaphor of human's climb to perfection</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit28-12" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit28-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:12</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink> suggests that the dream is a message for Yaakov to strive to reach his potential despite his present unpromising circumstances.&#160; Alternatively, one might take a more critical stance and suggest that Hashem is telling Yaakov that he needs to improve given his morally questionable tricking of his brother.</li>
 
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"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
 
"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
 
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p><ul>
 
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p><ul>
<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In four of the eight occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
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<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In about one third of the occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
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<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:10</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">73:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
 
<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:10</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">73:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
 
<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; See Y. Felix<fn>See Olam HaTanakh, Bereshit (Tel Aviv, 2002): 180-183. Y. Felix suggests that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>See, for instance, Dr. J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) and R. Siegel's article, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
 
<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; See Y. Felix<fn>See Olam HaTanakh, Bereshit (Tel Aviv, 2002): 180-183. Y. Felix suggests that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>See, for instance, Dr. J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) and R. Siegel's article, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
<li><b>Professional herder's knowledge</b> – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.<fn>See e.g. Scott Noegel, "Sex, Sticks, and the Trickster in Gen. 30:31-43: A New Look at an Old Crux", Journal of Ancient Near Eastern Society 25 (1997), 7-17.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Professional herder's knowledge</b> – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.<fn>See, for instance, Scott Noegel, "Sex, Sticks, and the Trickster in Gen. 30:31-43: A New Look at an Old Crux", Journal of Ancient Near Eastern Society 25 (1997), 7-17.</fn></li>
 
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<subcategory>Miraculous Might?
 
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<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p>
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<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p><ul>
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<li><b>Removing the stone</b> – In&#160;<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
<li><b>Removing the stone</b>&#160; – In&#160;<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
 
 
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<li><b>Super strength</b> -&#160;<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink> points out that in this story, the Torah tangentially shares that Yaakov, and not only Esav, possessed great physical strength.<fn>See also <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>, "להודיע גבורתו בא הכתוב".</fn>&#160; He points out, though, that Yaakov is never seen using his strength to hurt those weaker than himself.</li>
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<li><b>Super strength</b>&#160;<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink> points out that in this story, the Torah tangentially shares that Yaakov, and not only Esav, possessed great physical strength.<fn>See also <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>, "להודיע גבורתו בא הכתוב".</fn>&#160; He points out, though, that Yaakov is never seen using his strength to hurt those weaker than himself.</li>
<li><b>Ordinary strength</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> suggests that really the only reason the other shepherds could not remove the stone on their own was because they were still youths and not yet full grown adults like Yaakov.&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> also posits that Yaakov was no stronger than the average and that he was capable of removing the boulder only due to Hashem's help.<fn>He writes, "והיה לו זה מברכת האל שנתן לו כח יתירה.". He also raises the possibility that Yaakov actually removed the stone only with the other shepherds' help.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Ordinary strength</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> suggests that really the only reason the other shepherds could not remove the stone on their own was because they were still youths and not yet full grown adults like Yaakov.&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> also posits that Yaakov was no stronger than the average and that he was capable of removing the boulder only due to Hashem's help.<fn>He writes, "והיה לו זה מברכת האל שנתן לו כח יתירה.". He also raises the possibility that Yaakov actually removed the stone only with the other shepherds' help.</fn> Other sources suggest that any one person could have removed the stone alone, but the local shepherds had agreed not to remove the stone unless all were present, to ensure that the water was apportioned fairly.<fn>See Lekach Tov, R' Avraham ben haRambam, and Shadal on Breishit 29:8</fn></li>
 
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<li><b>Wrestling with angels?</b> – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".&#160; If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
<li><b>Wrestling with angels?</b> – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".&#160; If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
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<subcategory>Restraint
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<p><b>The Incident in Shekhem</b> – Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn></p><ul>
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<li><b>Morally reprehensible</b> – Yaakov might have disagreed with his sons' desire for collective punishment and active deterrence, viewing these as unjust, and preferred a policy of restraint and / or targeted punishment.&#160; Commentators differ regarding what exactly he had thought would happen:</li>
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<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
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<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
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<li><b>Give Dinah in marriage</b> – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.<fn>According to this understanding, the condition to circumcise included a rejection of idolatry. As there were no other commandments at this time, perhaps this sufficed to become part of the Israelite nation. If so, making alliances such as this might have been an alternative to military conquest.</fn> The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land. &#160;</li>
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<li><b>Tactically flawed</b>&#160;– Alternatively, Yaakov might have disagreed with his sons only from a strategic perspective, worrying that their plan would backfire when surrounding peoples counter-attacked.</li>
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</ul><p>Tanakh does not say who was in the right, leaving it ambiguous whether the incident called for Shimon and Levi's harsh measures or Yaakov's restraint.&#160; For full discussion of the incident see <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi</a>.</p>
 
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<li><b>Retrieving a loss</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, instead, claims that when Yaakov bought the birthright, he bought the rights to the blessing.&#160; Since Esav was trying to renege on the deal, Yaakov cannot be blamed for trying to retrieve was was rightfully his.</li>
 
<li><b>Retrieving a loss</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, instead, claims that when Yaakov bought the birthright, he bought the rights to the blessing.&#160; Since Esav was trying to renege on the deal, Yaakov cannot be blamed for trying to retrieve was was rightfully his.</li>
 
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<li><b>Mitigate wrong-doing</b>&#160;– Others attempt to mitigate Yaakov's wrong-doing, even if they do not totally justify his actions. <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">65:18</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> attempt to minimize Yaakov's lying by re-punctuating his words "אָנֹכִי עֵשָׂו בְּכֹרֶךָ" to read "אנכי – המביא לך, ועשו הוא בכורך."<multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source"> HaKetav veHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:12</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, instead, defends Yaakov by&#160; suggesting that he was an unwilling participant, and even hoped to be found out.</li>
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<li><b>Mitigate wrongdoing</b>&#160;– Others attempt to mitigate Yaakov's wrongdoing, even if they do not totally justify his actions. <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">65:18</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> attempt to minimize Yaakov's lying by re-punctuating his words "אָנֹכִי עֵשָׂו בְּכֹרֶךָ" to read "אנכי – המביא לך, ועשו הוא בכורך."<multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source"> HaKetav veHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:12</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, instead, defends Yaakov by&#160; suggesting that he was an unwilling participant, and even hoped to be found out.</li>
 
<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Tanchuma</a><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Vayetze 11</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">About the Tanchuma</a></multilink> suggests that Yaakov sinned and was punished measure for measure for his trickery.</li>
 
<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Tanchuma</a><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Vayetze 11</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">About the Tanchuma</a></multilink> suggests that Yaakov sinned and was punished measure for measure for his trickery.</li>
 
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Lack of Trust in Hashem?
 
Lack of Trust in Hashem?
<p>In <a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in <a href="Bereshit28-10-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:15</a>: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p>
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<p>In <a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in <a href="Bereshit28-10-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:15</a>: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p><ul>
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<li><b>No lack of faith</b>&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source"> Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32 Introduction</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:12-13</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>,<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 32:9</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and the opinion rejected by <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source"> Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32 Introduction</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:12-13</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>,<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 32:9</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and the opinion rejected by <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
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<li><b>Lack of faith</b> Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
 
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<subcategory name="Subservience">
 
<subcategory name="Subservience">
 
Subservience to Esav
 
Subservience to Esav
<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:3</a>). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p>
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<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:3</a>). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Praiseworthy</b> – Zohar Vayishlach 115a</li>
 
<li><b>Praiseworthy</b> – Zohar Vayishlach 115a</li>
 
<li><b>Necessary</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
 
<li><b>Necessary</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
 
<li><b>Problematic</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">75:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See R"Y Medan's article "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: ספר בראשית" (Tel Aviv, 2014): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
 
<li><b>Problematic</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">75:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See R"Y Medan's article "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: ספר בראשית" (Tel Aviv, 2014): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
 
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Passivity / Restraint in Shekhem
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<p>See the discussion above regarding Yaakov's reaction to the rape. Should Yaakov's desired policy of restraint be condemned or lauded? See <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi</a>.</p>
 
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<subcategory>Yaakov and Esav
 
<subcategory>Yaakov and Esav
<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">taking the blessing</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a>).</p>
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<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">taking the blessing</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a>).</p><ul>
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<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="SfornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Sforno</a><a href="SfornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SfornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Sforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Sforno</a></multilink>, and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SfornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Sforno</a><a href="SfornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Sforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Sforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>, and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
 
 
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source"> Ibn Ezra's third commentary</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Third Commentary 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> which is influenced by Rashbam. The&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>Cf .<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
 
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source"> Ibn Ezra's third commentary</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Third Commentary 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> which is influenced by Rashbam. The&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>Cf .<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
 
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Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
 
Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">verse</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p>
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<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">verse</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Preferred Rachel</b>&#160;– Many commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 29:30</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R. S.R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> points to Devarim 21:15, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
<li><b>Preferred Rachel</b> - Many commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 29:30</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>, and <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence, R. Hirsch points to Devarim 21:15, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
 
 
<li><b>Hated Leah</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">71:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, and the <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Hated Leah</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">71:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, and the <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
 
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Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"
 
Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"
<p>Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" (<a href="Bereshit30-1-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1-3</a>). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?</p>
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<p>Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" (<a href="Bereshit30-1-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1-3</a>). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Justified </b>– Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:</li>
 
<li><b>Justified </b>– Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:</li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>and <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink><fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:1-2</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SfornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Sforno</a><a href="SfornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Sforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Sforno</a></multilink>.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said: "Could you pray for me", Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>and <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink><fn>See also Ralbag and Seforno.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said: "Could you pray for me", Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,<fn>Cf.&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1-2</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,<fn>See also R. Hirsch and R. D"Z Hoffmann.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
 
 
<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Akeidat Yitzchak</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Peirush 3</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Arama</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
 
<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Akeidat Yitzchak</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Peirush 3</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Arama</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
 
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<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah </a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">71:7</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>maintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"</li>
 
<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah </a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">71:7</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>maintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"</li>
 
<li><b>Misunderstood</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2-3</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink><fn>See also <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink>.</fn> asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.</li>
 
<li><b>Misunderstood</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2-3</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink><fn>See also <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink>.</fn> asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.</li>
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</ul><p><b> II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים"</b> – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?</p><ul>
 
</ul><p><b> II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים"</b> – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?</p><ul>
 
<li><b> Show of love</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 37:3</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink></li>
 
<li><b> Show of love</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 37:3</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink></li>
<li><b> Sign of leadership or chosen status</b> – <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">HaKetav VeHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> suggest that the cloak was a sign of stature. This reading might suggest that the siblings were not merely engaged in common sibling rivalry, but in a competition as to who was to be the "chosen son" and merit to continue the line of Avraham.<fn>Though the reader knows that in the end all of the sons of Yaakov were chosen, it is very possible that the brothers, and even Yaakov himself, did not know this. See&#160;<a href="Yosef's Treatment of his Family" data-aht="page">Yosef's Treatment of his Family</a> for how this might have affected the siblings' interactions throughout the narrative.</fn></li>
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<li><b> Sign of leadership or chosen status</b> – <multilink><a href="SfornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Sforno</a><a href="SfornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Sforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Sforno</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">HaKetav VeHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> suggest that the cloak was a sign of stature. This reading might suggest that the siblings were not merely engaged in common sibling rivalry, but in a competition as to who was to be the "chosen son" and merit to continue the line of Avraham.<fn>Though the reader knows that in the end all of the sons of Yaakov were chosen, it is very possible that the brothers, and even Yaakov himself, did not know this. See&#160;<a href="Yosef's Treatment of his Family" data-aht="page">Yosef's Treatment of his Family</a> for how this might have affected the siblings' interactions throughout the narrative.</fn></li>
 
</ul><p><b>III. Double Portion</b>&#160;– In <a href="Bereshit48-3-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a>, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [See <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yosef's Double Portion</a> for elaboration.]</p><ul>
 
</ul><p><b>III. Double Portion</b>&#160;– In <a href="Bereshit48-3-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a>, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [See <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yosef's Double Portion</a> for elaboration.]</p><ul>
 
<li><b>Love</b> – Ralbag, Tzeror HaMor, Or HaChayyim assume that the choice did indeed stem from Yaakov's love for Rachel, and by extension, Yosef.</li>
 
<li><b>Love</b> – Ralbag, Tzeror HaMor, Or HaChayyim assume that the choice did indeed stem from Yaakov's love for Rachel, and by extension, Yosef.</li>
<li><b>Prophecy</b> –&#160; <a href="RShemuelbChofniGaonBereshit48-4-7" data-aht="source">R. Shemuel b. Chofni Gaon</a>,&#160;<multilink><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Abarbanel</a><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Abarbanel" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Abarbanel</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink> suggest that Yaakov chose to give Yosef a double portion since he understood Hashem's prophecy, "וּנְתַתִּיךָ לִקְהַל עַמִּים" to refer specifically to Menashe and Ephraim.</li>
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<li><b>Prophecy</b> –&#160; <a href="RShemuelbChofniGaonBereshit48-4-7" data-aht="source">R. Shemuel b. Chofni Gaon</a>,&#160;<multilink><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Abarbanel</a><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Abarbanel" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Abarbanel</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="SfornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Sforno</a><a href="SfornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Sforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Sforno</a></multilink> suggest that Yaakov chose to give Yosef a double portion since he understood Hashem's prophecy, "וּנְתַתִּיךָ לִקְהַל עַמִּים" to refer specifically to Menashe and Ephraim.</li>
 
<li><b>Replacing Reuven</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 48:16</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaMilot 48:4</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assert that the choice was a consequence of Reuven's rejection.&#160; In the aftermath of Reuven's deed, Yaakov transferred the birthright from the firstborn of his first wife to the firstborn of his second wife, Rachel.</li>
 
<li><b>Replacing Reuven</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 48:16</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaMilot 48:4</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assert that the choice was a consequence of Reuven's rejection.&#160; In the aftermath of Reuven's deed, Yaakov transferred the birthright from the firstborn of his first wife to the firstborn of his second wife, Rachel.</li>
 
<li><b>Incentive</b>&#160;– R. Weitman<fn>See his article,&#160;<a href="https://www.etzion.org.il/he/%D7%95%D7%99%D7%97%D7%99-%D7%99%D7%A2%D7%A7%D7%91-%E2%80%93-%D7%91%D7%90%D7%A8%D7%A5-%D7%9E%D7%A6%D7%A8%D7%99%D7%9D">"ויחי יעקב - בארץ מצרים"</a> (Parashat Vayechi, 5773).</fn> assumes that Yosef and his sons had begin to assimilate into Egyptian society and that Yaakov gave Yosef a double portion of the land as an incentive to remain in the fold and to return to Israel.</li>
 
<li><b>Incentive</b>&#160;– R. Weitman<fn>See his article,&#160;<a href="https://www.etzion.org.il/he/%D7%95%D7%99%D7%97%D7%99-%D7%99%D7%A2%D7%A7%D7%91-%E2%80%93-%D7%91%D7%90%D7%A8%D7%A5-%D7%9E%D7%A6%D7%A8%D7%99%D7%9D">"ויחי יעקב - בארץ מצרים"</a> (Parashat Vayechi, 5773).</fn> assumes that Yosef and his sons had begin to assimilate into Egyptian society and that Yaakov gave Yosef a double portion of the land as an incentive to remain in the fold and to return to Israel.</li>
 
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<subcategory>Relating to Reuven's Misdeed
<p><a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a> recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?&#160; For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, see <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a></p>
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<p><a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a> recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?&#160; For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, see <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a>.</p>
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Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekhem
 
<p>Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn>&#160; Either way, what had he planned to do instead?&#160; For full discussion of the incident, see <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a>.</p><ul>
 
<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
 
<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
 
<li><b>Give Dinah in marriage</b> – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.<fn>According to this understanding, the condition to circumcise included a rejection of idolatry. As there were no other commandments at this time, perhaps this sufficed to become part of the Israelite nation. If so, making alliances such as this might have been an alternative to military conquest.</fn> The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land. &#160;</li>
 
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<subcategory>Blessings to Sons
 
<subcategory>Blessings to Sons
 
<p>Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p><ul>
 
<p>Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p><ul>
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<li>For discussion of Shimon and Levi's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi</a>.</li>
 
<li>For analysis of Yehuda's blessing, see <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship?</a></li>
 
<li>For analysis of Yehuda's blessing, see <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship?</a></li>
 
<li>For discussion of Yosef's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef</a>.</li>
 
<li>For discussion of Yosef's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef</a>.</li>
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<p>From the moment that Yaakov takes the blessing from Esav, his life is filled with trials:</p><ul>
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<li><b>Flight from Esav</b> – Yaakov is forced to run away from Esav, exiled from home and family.</li>
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<li><b>Duped in Marriage</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Tanchuma</a><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Vayetze 11</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">About the Tanchuma</a></multilink> suggests that Lavan's tricking Yaakov into marrying the older rather than younger sister is a measure for measure punishment for his tricking his father into blessing the younger rather than the older brother.<fn>See above for alternative readings and justifications of Yaakov's taking of the blessing.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Cheated in Business</b> – One might similarly suggested that Lavan's continuous cheating of Yaakov in business is a measure for measure punishment for Yaakov's swindling his brother over the birthright.<fn>See above for alternative readings of the story which justify Yaakov's actions.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Rape of Dina</b> – See discussion above.<b><br/></b></li>
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<li><b>Sale of Yosef</b> – The brothers deceive Yaakov during the sale of Yosef through the blood of a goat, perhaps measure for measure retribution for his using goat skins to deceive his father into giving him Esav's blessings.<b><br/></b></li>
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<li><b>Yaakov at the Well</b> – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?</li>
 
<li><b>Yaakov at the Well</b> – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?</li>
<li><a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">Avraham and Yaakov</a> – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").&#8206; It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?&#160; See <a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">Avraham and Yaakov</a>.</li>
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<li><b>Avraham and Yaakov</b>&#160;– Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").&#8206; It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?&#160; See <a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">Avraham and Yaakov</a>.</li>
<li><a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">Yaakov and David</a> – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.&#160; What do these teach us?&#160; See <a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">Yaakov and David</a>.</li>
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<li><b>Yaakov and David&#160;</b>– Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.&#160; What do these teach us?&#160; See <a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">Yaakov and David</a>.</li>
 
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Yaakov – Overview

Overview

The Yaakov narratives span half of Sefer Bereshit, giving the reader significant insight into his life and character. When describing himself to Paroh, Yaakov says, "מְעַט וְרָעִים הָיוּ יְמֵי שְׁנֵי חַיַּי" (few and unfortunate were the days of my life), a somewhat apt description of Yaakov's burden-filled years.  From the moment after he buys the birthright and receives the blessing of Yitzchak, his life is filled with misfortune upon misfortune. He is forced to flee from home, tricked into marrying an unwanted wife, and cheated in business. Upon his return to Israel, his daughter is raped and his favorite son, Yosef, is sold into slavery.

Yaakov's character is complex. He is described as an "אִישׁ תָּם", yet he deceives his brother.  He is courageous and powerful enough to fight an angel, yet passive in face of Shekhem's rape of Dinah.  He adores Rachel, yet he is one of the few husbands in Tanakh to explicitly rebuke his wife. How are we to understand these contrasting traits?  The page below explores Yaakov's character, relationships, and deeds as seen through the eyes of generations of commentators. Together, they weave a fascinating tapestry of the father of our nation.

Religious Identity

Oath at Beit El

Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (Bereshit 28:18-22), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה י"י לִי לֵא-לֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱ-לֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.  Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?  If the latter, what is he promising to do?  Was Hashem not already his God?

Yaakov and Mitzvot

The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.  Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.

Yaakov's Dream

The dream of the ladder reaching heavenwards is one of the images most associated with Yaakov.  What, though, did this dream connote and what might it teach about Yaakov's relationship to Hashem at the critical juncture in which he fled from his brother?  [See Yaakov's Dream.]

  • Message of consolationNetzivBereshit 29:31About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin explains that the dream signified Hashem's providence over Yaakov. As such, the dream highlights how Yaakov, fearfully fleeing from his brother and venturing into the unknown, both needed and merited Hashem's encouragement and protection.
  • Symbol of prayer – ShadalBereshit 28:12-13About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto suggests that the dream is merely a visual representation of prayer. This might suggest, as Chazal claim, that before leaving Israel Yaakov had stopped at Beit El to pray to Hashem.
  • Metaphor of human's climb to perfection – R. D"Z HoffmannBereshit 28:12About R. David Zvi Hoffmann suggests that the dream is a message for Yaakov to strive to reach his potential despite his present unpromising circumstances.  Alternatively, one might take a more critical stance and suggest that Hashem is telling Yaakov that he needs to improve given his morally questionable tricking of his brother.

Unique Traits

"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"

Bereshit 25 introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?

Sheep Breeder

Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.  While Bereshit 30:37-39 speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep, Bereshit 31:7-12 suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?

  • Miracle – RashiBereshit 31:10About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki and Bereshit Rabbah73:10About Bereshit Rabbah suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.
  • Divinely taught scientific knowledge – RalbagBereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12About R. Levi b. Gershom assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.  See Y. Felix3 who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others4 point to the role of epigenetics.
  • Professional herder's knowledge – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.5

Miraculous Might?

When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.  Two stories might question that assumption:

  • Removing the stone – In Bereshit 29 we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.  However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.
    • Super strength – R. D"Z HoffmannBereshit 29:10About R. David Zvi Hoffmann points out that in this story, the Torah tangentially shares that Yaakov, and not only Esav, possessed great physical strength.6  He points out, though, that Yaakov is never seen using his strength to hurt those weaker than himself.
    • Ordinary strength – R"Y Bekhor ShorBereshit 29:10About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor suggests that really the only reason the other shepherds could not remove the stone on their own was because they were still youths and not yet full grown adults like Yaakov. RadakBereshit 29:10About R. David Kimchi also posits that Yaakov was no stronger than the average and that he was capable of removing the boulder only due to Hashem's help.7 Other sources suggest that any one person could have removed the stone alone, but the local shepherds had agreed not to remove the stone unless all were present, to ensure that the water was apportioned fairly.8
  • Wrestling with angels? – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".  If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?  See Wrestling With Angels and Men.

Restraint

The Incident in Shekhem – Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".  Did Yaakov views their actions  as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?9

  • Morally reprehensible – Yaakov might have disagreed with his sons' desire for collective punishment and active deterrence, viewing these as unjust, and preferred a policy of restraint and / or targeted punishment.  Commentators differ regarding what exactly he had thought would happen:
    • Retrieve Dinah – RambanBereshit 34:13About R. Moshe b. Nachman asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.
    • Kill only the guilty – RambanBereshit 34:13About R. Moshe b. Nachman also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.
    • Give Dinah in marriage – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.10 The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land.  
  • Tactically flawed – Alternatively, Yaakov might have disagreed with his sons only from a strategic perspective, worrying that their plan would backfire when surrounding peoples counter-attacked.

Tanakh does not say who was in the right, leaving it ambiguous whether the incident called for Shimon and Levi's harsh measures or Yaakov's restraint.  For full discussion of the incident see Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem and Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi.

Possible Sins / Flaws

Sale of the Birthright

Bereshit 25 discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.  Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?  Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal?]

Taking the Blessing

Bereshit 27 describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.  How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?  Was he a willing or unwilling participant?   Were his actions justified?

Lack of Trust in Hashem?

In Bereshit 32:7-8, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,13 should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?

Subservience to Esav

Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (Bereshit 33:3). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?

Passivity / Restraint in Shekhem

See the discussion above regarding Yaakov's reaction to the rape. Should Yaakov's desired policy of restraint be condemned or lauded? See Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem and Yaakov's Parting Words to Shimon and Levi.

Parents and Siblings

Favored by Rivka

Bereshit 25:28 shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).  What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [For approaches as to why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see Why Bless Esav and A Portrait of Esav.]

Yaakov and Esav

See above regarding Yaakov's buying of the birthright and taking the blessing. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (Bereshit 32:7), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (Bereshit 33:4).

  • Still angry – The majority of commentators19 assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men intent on attacking Yaakov.  They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere20 (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)21, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,22 or an act of Divine intervention.23
  • Anger dissipated – RashbamBereshit 32:7-8About R. Shemuel b. Meir,24 in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.25 [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]  Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see Wrestling With Angels and Men and Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp.]

Wives

Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"

In Bereshit 29:31, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding verse, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?

Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"

Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" (Bereshit 30:1-3). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?

  • Justified – Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:
  • Unjustified – Bereshit Rabbah 71:7About Bereshit Rabbahmaintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"
  • MisunderstoodR"Y Bekhor ShorBereshit 30:2-3About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor32 asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.

Status of Bilhah and Zilpah

Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).  In Bereshit 35:22, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in Bereshit 37:2 both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?  Did their status change over time?

  • Changing status – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.  See Reuven and Bilhah.

Children

Births of Yaakov's Children

A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule33 but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.

Favoring Yosef

I. "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ" – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "‎כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".‎ What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?

II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים" – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?

III. Double Portion – In Bereshit 48, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [See Yosef's Double Portion for elaboration.]

Relating to Reuven's Misdeed

Bereshit 35:22 recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?  For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, see Reuven and Bilhah.

Blessings to Sons

Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?  What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.

Menashe & Ephraim

Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?

Trials and Tribulations

From the moment that Yaakov takes the blessing from Esav, his life is filled with trials:

  • Flight from Esav – Yaakov is forced to run away from Esav, exiled from home and family.
  • Duped in Marriage – TanchumaVayetze 11About the Tanchuma suggests that Lavan's tricking Yaakov into marrying the older rather than younger sister is a measure for measure punishment for his tricking his father into blessing the younger rather than the older brother.36
  • Cheated in Business – One might similarly suggested that Lavan's continuous cheating of Yaakov in business is a measure for measure punishment for Yaakov's swindling his brother over the birthright.37
  • Rape of Dina – See discussion above.
  • Sale of Yosef – The brothers deceive Yaakov during the sale of Yosef through the blood of a goat, perhaps measure for measure retribution for his using goat skins to deceive his father into giving him Esav's blessings.

Comparisons to Other Figures

  • Yaakov at the Well – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?
  • Avraham and Yaakov – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").‎ It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?  See Avraham and Yaakov.
  • Yaakov and David – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.  What do these teach us?  See Yaakov and David.

Yaakov in the Arts

Art and music often serve as "modern midrash" on the Biblical text. The artists' choices reflect certain ambiguities in the text and different possible interpretive stances, making a wonderful foil through which to study the original story. Some examples follow: