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<category>Religious Identity
 
<category>Religious Identity
 
<subcategory>Oath at Beit El
 
<subcategory>Oath at Beit El
<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:18-22</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p>
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<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:18-22</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Condition</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
 
<li><b>Condition</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
 
<li><b>Obligation</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
 
<li><b>Obligation</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
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<subcategory>Yaakov and Mitzvot
 
<subcategory>Yaakov and Mitzvot
<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p>
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<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p><ul>
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<li>For a full discussion and sources, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot.</a></li>
 
<li>For a full discussion and sources, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot.</a></li>
 
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<subcategory name="אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים">
 
<subcategory name="אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים">
 
"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
 
"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p><ul>
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p>
<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In 4 of the 8 occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
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<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In four of the eight occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
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<subcategory>Sheep Breeder
 
<subcategory>Sheep Breeder
<p>Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.&#160; While&#160;<a href="Bereshit30-37-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:37-39</a> speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep,&#160;<a href="Bereshit31-7-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:7-12</a> suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?</p>
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<p>Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.&#160; While&#160;<a href="Bereshit30-37-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:37-39</a> speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep,&#160;<a href="Bereshit31-7-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:7-12</a> suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:10</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">73:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
 
<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:10</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">73:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
 
<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; See Y. Felix<fn>See Olam HaTanakh, Bereshit (Tel Aviv, 2002): 180-183. Y. Felix suggests that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>See, for instance, Dr. J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) and R. Siegel's article, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
 
<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; See Y. Felix<fn>See Olam HaTanakh, Bereshit (Tel Aviv, 2002): 180-183. Y. Felix suggests that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>See, for instance, Dr. J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) and R. Siegel's article, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
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<subcategory>Miraculous Might?
 
<subcategory>Miraculous Might?
<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p>
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<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p><ul>
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<li><b>Removing the stone</b>&#160; – In&#160;<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
 
<li><b>Removing the stone</b>&#160; – In&#160;<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
 
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<subcategory name="The Birthright">
 
<subcategory name="The Birthright">
 
Sale of the Birthright
 
Sale of the Birthright
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a> discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.&#160; Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?&#160; Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see <a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page">Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal?</a>]</p>
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a> discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.&#160; Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?&#160; Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see <a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page">Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal?</a>]</p><ul>
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<li><b>Esav was unworthy</b> – According to&#160;<a href="BereshitRabbah63-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a> and <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, the birthright was a spiritual commodity, namely the priestly status, which Esav was both unworthy of and uninterested in receiving.</li>
 
<li><b>Esav was unworthy</b> – According to&#160;<a href="BereshitRabbah63-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a> and <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, the birthright was a spiritual commodity, namely the priestly status, which Esav was both unworthy of and uninterested in receiving.</li>
 
<li><b>Yaakov paid fair value</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> claims that Yaakov paid for the birthright in full, with money.&#160; The accompanying meal served simply to seal the deal.&#160; <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink>, instead, suggests that the birthright was almost worthless since Yitzchak was penniless. As such, the lentil stew was a fair price.</li>
 
<li><b>Yaakov paid fair value</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> claims that Yaakov paid for the birthright in full, with money.&#160; The accompanying meal served simply to seal the deal.&#160; <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink>, instead, suggests that the birthright was almost worthless since Yitzchak was penniless. As such, the lentil stew was a fair price.</li>
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<subcategory name="Lack of Trust">
 
<subcategory name="Lack of Trust">
 
Lack of Trust in Hashem?
 
Lack of Trust in Hashem?
<p>In <a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in Bereshit 28:15: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p>
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<p>In <a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in Bereshit 28:15: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p><ul>
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<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also Ibn Ezra, Radak, Ramban, R. Hirsch and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:12-13</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>,<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 32:9</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and the opinion rejected by <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
 
<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also Ibn Ezra, Radak, Ramban, R. Hirsch and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:12-13</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>,<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 32:9</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and the opinion rejected by <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
 
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also Radak who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also Radak who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
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<li><b>Praiseworthy</b> – Zohar Vayishlach 115a</li>
 
<li><b>Praiseworthy</b> – Zohar Vayishlach 115a</li>
 
<li><b>Necessary</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
 
<li><b>Necessary</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
<li><b>Problematic</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">75:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See R"Y Medan's article "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: פר בראשית" (Tel Aviv, 2014): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
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<li><b>Problematic</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">75:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See R"Y Medan's article "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: ספר בראשית" (Tel Aviv, 2014): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
 
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<subcategory>Yaakov and Esav
 
<subcategory>Yaakov and Esav
<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">taking the blessing</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a>).</p>
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<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">taking the blessing</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a>).</p><ul>
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<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source"> Ibn Ezra's third commentary</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Third Commentary 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> which is influenced by Rashbam. The&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>Cf .<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
 
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source"> Ibn Ezra's third commentary</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Third Commentary 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> which is influenced by Rashbam. The&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>Cf .<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
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Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
 
Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">verse</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p>
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<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">verse</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Preferred Rachel</b> - Many commentators<fn>See, for example, R"Y Bekhor Shor, Radak, Ralbag, Shadal and R. Hirsch.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence, R. Hirsch points to Devarim 21:15, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Preferred Rachel</b> - Many commentators<fn>See, for example, R"Y Bekhor Shor, Radak, Ralbag, Shadal and R. Hirsch.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence, R. Hirsch points to Devarim 21:15, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Hated Leah</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">71:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, and the <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
 
<li><b>Hated Leah</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">71:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, and the <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>and <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink><fn>See also Ralbag and Seforno.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said, could you pray for me, Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>and <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink><fn>See also Ralbag and Seforno.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said: "Could you pray for me", Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
 
<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,<fn>See also R. Hirsch and R. D"Z Hoffmann.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
 
<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,<fn>See also R. Hirsch and R. D"Z Hoffmann.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
 
<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Akeidat Yitzchak</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Peirush 3</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Arama</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
 
<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Akeidat Yitzchak</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Peirush 3</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Arama</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
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<subcategory name="Bilhah and Zilpah">
 
Status of Bilhah and Zilpah
 
Status of Bilhah and Zilpah
<p>Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).&#160; In <a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a>, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in&#160;<a href="Bereshit37-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:2</a> both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?&#160; Did their status change over time?</p>
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<p>Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).&#160; In <a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a>, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in&#160;<a href="Bereshit37-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:2</a> both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?&#160; Did their status change over time?</p><ul>
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<li><b>Changing status</b> – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.&#160; See <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a>.</li>
 
<li><b>Changing status</b> – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.&#160; See <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a>.</li>
 
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<subcategory name="Childrens' Births">
 
Births of Yaakov's Children
 
Births of Yaakov's Children
<p>A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule<fn>Though it is possible to bear 7 children in the same number of years, given that in the middle there was a hiatus in which Leah could not conceive for long enough to make her give her maidservant to Yaakov, the story is difficult.</fn> but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.</p>
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<p>A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule<fn>Though it is possible to bear seven children in the same number of years, given that in the middle there was a hiatus in which Leah could not conceive for long enough to make her give her maidservant to Yaakov, the story is difficult.</fn> but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.</p>
 
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<li>For details regarding the chronology, its difficulties, and potential solutions, see <a href="The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children" data-aht="page">The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children</a>.</li>
 
<li>For details regarding the chronology, its difficulties, and potential solutions, see <a href="The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children" data-aht="page">The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children</a>.</li>
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Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekhem
 
Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekhem
<p>Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn>&#160; Either way, what had he planned to do instead?&#160; For full discussion of the incident, see <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a>.</p>
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<p>Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn>&#160; Either way, what had he planned to do instead?&#160; For full discussion of the incident, see <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a>.</p><ul>
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<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
 
<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
 
<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
 
<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
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<subcategory>Blessings to Sons
 
<subcategory>Blessings to Sons
<p>Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p>
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<p>Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p><ul>
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<li>For analysis of Yehuda's blessing, see <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship?</a></li>
 
<li>For analysis of Yehuda's blessing, see <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship?</a></li>
 
<li>For discussion of Yosef's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef</a>.</li>
 
<li>For discussion of Yosef's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef</a>.</li>
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<subcategory>Menashe &amp; Ephraim
 
<subcategory>Menashe &amp; Ephraim
<p>Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?</p>
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<p>Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?</p><ul>
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<li>Regarding the decision to grant Menashe and Ephraim tribal status, see discussion above and <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion</a>.</li>
 
<li>Regarding the decision to grant Menashe and Ephraim tribal status, see discussion above and <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion</a>.</li>
 
<li>Regarding Yaakov's not recognizing his grandchildren, see <a href="When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe" data-aht="page">When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe</a>.</li>
 
<li>Regarding Yaakov's not recognizing his grandchildren, see <a href="When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe" data-aht="page">When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe</a>.</li>

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Yaakov – Overview

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Overview

The Yaakov narratives span half of Sefer Bereshit, giving the reader significant insight into his life and character. When describing himself to Paroh, Yaakov says, "מְעַט וְרָעִים הָיוּ יְמֵי שְׁנֵי חַיַּי" (few and unfortunate were the days of my life), a somewhat apt description of Yaakov's burden-filled years.  From the moment after he buys the birthright and receives the blessing of Yitzchak, his life is filled with misfortune upon misfortune. He is forced to flee from home, tricked into marrying an unwanted wife, and cheated in business. Upon his return to Israel, his daughter is raped and his favorite son, Yosef, is sold into slavery.

Yaakov's character is complex. He is described as an "אִישׁ תָּם", yet he deceives his brother.  He is courageous and powerful enough to fight an angel, yet passive in face of Shekhem's rape of Dinah.  He adores Rachel, yet he is one of the few husbands in Tanakh to explicitly rebuke his wife. How are we to understand these contrasting traits?  The page below explores Yaakov's character, relationships, and deeds as seen through the eyes of generations of commentators. Together, they weave a fascinating tapestry of the father of our nation.

Religious Identity

Oath at Beit El

Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (Bereshit 28:18-22), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה י"י לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.  Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?  If the latter, what is he promising to do?  Was Hashem not already his God?

Yaakov and Mitzvot

The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.  Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.

Unique Traits

"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"

Bereshit 25 introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?

Sheep Breeder

Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.  While Bereshit 30:37-39 speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep, Bereshit 31:7-12 suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?

  • Miracle – RashiBereshit 31:10About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki and Bereshit Rabbah73:10About Bereshit Rabbah suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.
  • Divinely taught scientific knowledge – RalbagBereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12About R. Levi b. Gershom assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.  See Y. Felix3 who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others4 point to the role of epigenetics.
  • Professional herder's knowledge – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.5

Miraculous Might?

When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.  Two stories might question that assumption:

  • Removing the stone  – In Bereshit 29 we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.  However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.
  • Wrestling with angels? – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".  If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?  See Wrestling With Angels and Men.

Possible Sins / Flaws

Sale of the Birthright

Bereshit 25 discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.  Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?  Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal?]

Taking the Blessing

Bereshit 27 describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.  How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?  Was he a willing or unwilling participant?   Were his actions justified?

Lack of Trust in Hashem?

In Bereshit 32:7-8, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,10 should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?

Subservience to Esav

Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (Bereshit 33:3). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?

Parents and Siblings

Favored by Rivka

Bereshit 25:28 shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).  What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [For approaches as to why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see Why Bless Esav and A Portrait of Esav.]

Yaakov and Esav

See above regarding Yaakov's buying of the birthright and taking the blessing. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (Bereshit 32:7), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (Bereshit 33:4).

  • Still angry – The majority of commentators16 assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.  They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere17 (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)18, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,19 or an act of Divine intervention.20
  • Anger dissipated – RashbamBereshit 32:7-8About R. Shemuel b. Meir,21 in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.22 [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]  Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see Wrestling With Angels and Men and Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp.]

Wives

Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"

In Bereshit 29:31, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding verse, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?

Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"

Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" (Bereshit 30:1-3). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?

  • Justified – Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:
  • Unjustified – Bereshit Rabbah 71:7About Bereshit Rabbahmaintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"
  • MisunderstoodR"Y Bekhor ShorBereshit 30:2-3About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor29 asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.

Status of Bilhah and Zilpah

Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).  In Bereshit 35:22, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in Bereshit 37:2 both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?  Did their status change over time?

  • Changing status – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.  See Reuven and Bilhah.

Children

Births of Yaakov's Children

A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule30 but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.

Favoring Yosef

I. "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ" – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "‎כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".‎ What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?

II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים" – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?

III. Double Portion – In Bereshit 48, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [See Yosef's Double Portion for elaboration.]

Reuven and Bilhah

Bereshit 35:22 recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?  For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, see Reuven and Bilhah

Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekhem

Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".  Did Yaakov views their actions  as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?33  Either way, what had he planned to do instead?  For full discussion of the incident, see Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem.

  • Retrieve Dinah – RambanBereshit 34:13About R. Moshe b. Nachman asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.
  • Kill only the guilty – RambanBereshit 34:13About R. Moshe b. Nachman also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.
  • Give Dinah in marriage – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.34 The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land.  

Blessings to Sons

Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?  What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.

Menashe & Ephraim

Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?

Comparisons to Other Figures

  • Yaakov at the Well – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?
  • Avraham and Yaakov – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").‎ It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?  See Avraham and Yaakov.
  • Yaakov and David – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.  What do these teach us?  See Yaakov and David.

Yaakov in the Arts

Art and music often serve as "modern midrash" on the Biblical text. The artists' choices reflect certain ambiguities in the text and different possible interpretive stances, making a wonderful foil through which to study the original story. Some examples follow: