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<h1>יעקב – סקירה</h1>
 
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<div><b><center><span class="highlighted-notice">תרגום זה נמצא כעת בשלבי פיתוח וניתן בינתיים להשתמש בגרסה באנגלית</span></center></b></div>
 
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<h2>Overview</h2>
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<h2>סקירה</h2>
 
<p>The Yaakov narratives span half of Sefer Bereshit, giving the reader significant insight into his life and character. When describing himself to Paroh, Yaakov says, "מְעַט וְרָעִים הָיוּ יְמֵי שְׁנֵי חַיַּי" (few and unfortunate were the days of my life), a somewhat apt description of Yaakov's burden-filled years.&#160; From the moment after he buys the birthright and receives the blessing of Yitzchak, his life is filled with misfortune upon misfortune. He is forced to flee from home, tricked into marrying an unwanted wife, and cheated in business. Upon his return to Israel, his daughter is raped and his favorite son, Yosef, is sold into slavery.</p>
 
<p>The Yaakov narratives span half of Sefer Bereshit, giving the reader significant insight into his life and character. When describing himself to Paroh, Yaakov says, "מְעַט וְרָעִים הָיוּ יְמֵי שְׁנֵי חַיַּי" (few and unfortunate were the days of my life), a somewhat apt description of Yaakov's burden-filled years.&#160; From the moment after he buys the birthright and receives the blessing of Yitzchak, his life is filled with misfortune upon misfortune. He is forced to flee from home, tricked into marrying an unwanted wife, and cheated in business. Upon his return to Israel, his daughter is raped and his favorite son, Yosef, is sold into slavery.</p>
 
<p>Yaakov's character is complex. He is described as an "אִישׁ תָּם", yet he deceives his brother.&#160; He is courageous and powerful enough to fight an angel, yet passive in face of Shekhem's rape of Dinah.&#160; He adores Rachel, yet he is one of the few husbands in Tanakh to explicitly rebuke his wife. How are we to understand these contrasting traits?&#160; The page below explores Yaakov's character, relationships, and deeds as seen through the eyes of generations of commentators. Together, they weave a fascinating tapestry of the father of our nation.</p></div>
 
<p>Yaakov's character is complex. He is described as an "אִישׁ תָּם", yet he deceives his brother.&#160; He is courageous and powerful enough to fight an angel, yet passive in face of Shekhem's rape of Dinah.&#160; He adores Rachel, yet he is one of the few husbands in Tanakh to explicitly rebuke his wife. How are we to understand these contrasting traits?&#160; The page below explores Yaakov's character, relationships, and deeds as seen through the eyes of generations of commentators. Together, they weave a fascinating tapestry of the father of our nation.</p></div>
 
<category>Religious Identity
 
<category>Religious Identity
<subcategory>Oath at Beit El
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<subcategory>הנדר בבית אל
<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:18-22</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵאלֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱלֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p><ul>
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<p>Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (<a href="Bereshit28-18-22" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:י״ח-כ״ב</a>), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה&#160;י"י לִי לֵא-לֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱ-לֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.&#160; Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?&#160; If the latter, what is he promising to do?&#160; Was Hashem not already his God?</p><ul>
<li><b>Condition</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
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<li><b>תנאי</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:כ״א</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">ר׳ אברהם בן הרמב״ם</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:כ״א</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם בן הרמב"ם</a></multilink> assert that Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" are part of Yaakov's requests; he is asking that Hashem help him.</li>
<li><b>Obligation</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵאלֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
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<li><b>חובה</b> – Alternatively, Yaakov's words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" begin the list of Yaakov's obligations to Hashem.</li>
 
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<li>According to <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, Yaakov promises that if Hashem watches over him, he will then devote himself to service of Hashem and no longer engage in other pursuits. <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:21</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, instead suggests that Yaakov is promising that he will worship Hashem in Israel specifically..</li>
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<li>According to <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:כ״א</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink>, Yaakov promises that if Hashem watches over him, he will then devote himself to service of Hashem and no longer engage in other pursuits. <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit28-21" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:כ״א</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:י״ג</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink>, instead suggests that Yaakov is promising that he will worship Hashem in Israel specifically..</li>
<li>One might more radically suggest that Yaakov was indeed unsure if Hashem had powers outside of Israel, or perhaps had questions regarding the oneness of Hashem in general. If so, for him belief in monotheism was a process, and not a given.&#160; See <a href="Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim" data-aht="page">Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim</a> for discussion of this possibility.</li>
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<li>One might more radically suggest that Yaakov was indeed unsure if Hashem had powers outside of Israel, or perhaps had questions regarding the oneness of Hashem in general. If so, for him belief in monotheism was a process, and not a given.&#160; ראו <a href="Rachel's Stealing of the Terafim" data-aht="page">גניבת רחל את התרפים</a> for discussion of this possibility.</li>
 
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<subcategory>שמירת מצוות
 
<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p><ul>
 
<p>The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.&#160; Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.</p><ul>
<li>For a full discussion and sources, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot.</a></li>
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<li>For a full discussion and sources, ראו <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">אבות ומצוות</a>.</li>
 
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<category>Unique Traits
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<category>תכונות מיוחדות
 
<subcategory name="אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים">
 
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"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
 
"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p><ul>
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה</a>&#160;introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?</p><ul>
<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In four of the eight occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
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<li><b>"אִישׁ תָּם"</b> – Most commentators explain this term to mean that Yaakov was honest and upright, a man of integrity.<fn>In four of the eight occurrences of the word in Tanakh, it is paired with the word "יָשָׁר", honest.</fn>&#160;&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">שד״ל</a><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל דוד לוצאטו</a></multilink> adds that despite that there might have been an element of deceit in Yaakov's actions towards Esav, this does not negate his overall honest nature.</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
<li><b>"יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"</b> – Commentators explain this term in very differing ways:</li>
 
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<li><b>A man of learning</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah63-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah63-10" data-aht="source">63:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 25:27-28</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> all explain that Yaakov spent his days learning in the "Beit Midrash of Shem and Ever".&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> agrees that "אֹהָלִים" refers to "tents of learning" but suggests that Yaakov filled his days searching after more general wisdom.<fn>The difference of opinion might relate to the question of what would have been learned in a Beit Midrash centuries before the Torah was given.&#160; Did the Avot know of future mitzvot? For elaboration, see <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew?</a></fn></li>
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<li><b>למדן</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah63-10" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah63-10" data-aht="source">ס״ג:י׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">רש״י</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שלמה יצחקי</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה כ״ה:כ״ז-כ״ח</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> all explain that Yaakov spent his days learning in the "Beit Midrash of Shem and Ever".&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> agrees that "אֹהָלִים" refers to "tents of learning" but suggests that Yaakov filled his days searching after more general wisdom.<fn>The difference of opinion might relate to the question of what would have been learned in a Beit Midrash centuries before the Torah was given.&#160; Did the Avot know of future mitzvot? להרחבה, ראו <a href="Avot and Mitzvot – Was Avraham the First Jew" data-aht="page">אבות ומצוות</a>.</fn></li>
<li><b>A man of solitude</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> suggests&#160; that Yaakov spent his days in solitude, engaging in "התבודדות", presumably trying to commune with Hashem.</li>
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<li><b>מתבודד</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">ר׳ אברהם בן הרמב״ם</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם בן הרמב"ם</a></multilink> suggests&#160; that Yaakov spent his days in solitude, engaging in "התבודדות", presumably trying to commune with Hashem.</li>
<li><b>Shepherd</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-27" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 25:27</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> more simply suggest that the verse speaks of Yaakov's shepherding profession, pointing to the phrase "אֲבִי יֹשֵׁב אֹהֶל וּמִקְנֶה" (Bereshit 4:20) as evidence.</li>
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<li><b>רועה צאן</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ח</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-27" data-aht="source">אבן עזרא</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ראשון כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink> more simply suggest that the verse speaks of Yaakov's shepherding profession, pointing to the phrase "אֲבִי יֹשֵׁב אֹהֶל וּמִקְנֶה" (בראשית ד':כ') as evidence.</li>
 
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<subcategory>Sheep Breeder
 
<subcategory>Sheep Breeder
<p>Bereshit 30 highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.&#160; While&#160;<a href="Bereshit30-37-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:37-39</a> speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep,&#160;<a href="Bereshit31-7-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:7-12</a> suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?</p><ul>
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<p>בראשית ל' highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.&#160; While&#160;<a href="Bereshit30-37-39" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ל״ז-ל״ט</a> speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep,&#160;<a href="Bereshit31-7-12" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״א:ז׳-י״ב</a> suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?</p><ul>
<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 31:10</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">73:10</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
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<li><b>Miracle</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">רש״י</a><a href="RashiBereshit31-10" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״א:י׳</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שלמה יצחקי</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah73-10" data-aht="source">ע״ג:י׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink> suggest that Hashem had an angel supernaturally intervene to bring the necessary sheep from Lavan's flock to Yaakov's.</li>
<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:38-39</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 31:10-12</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; See Y. Felix<fn>See Olam HaTanakh, Bereshit (Tel Aviv, 2002): 180-183. Y. Felix suggests that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>See, for instance, Dr. J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) and R. Siegel's article, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
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<li><b>Divinely taught scientific knowledge</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-38-39" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה ל׳:ל״ח-ל״ט</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah31-10-12" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה ל״א:י׳-י״ב</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> assumes that there is a scientific basis for Yaakov's actions, and that what one looks at during mating can affect the offspring's physical appearance. Yaakov himself, however, would not have been aware of this had Hashem not given him the idea in a dream. Contemporary scientists have attempted to find more modern scientific explanations for the breeding.&#160; ראו י' פליקס<fn>ראו עולם התנ"ך, בראשית (תל אביב, תשס"ב): 180-183. יהודה פליקס מציע that Yaakov's actions with the sticks were only for show, to let Lavan think that he was only doing what all shepherds did.&#160; In reality, though, the peeling of the sticks played no role in the outcome.</fn> who suggests that Mendelian Genetics (relayed by Hashem to Yaakov) can explain the successful outcome, while others<fn>ראו למשל, J. Backon, "Jacob and the Spotted Sheep: the Role of Prenatal Nutrition on Epigenetics of Fur Color", JBQ 36:4 (2008) ומאמר R. Siegel, "Jacob’s Epigenetics: Spare the Rod or Spoil the Flock", Derech HaTeva: A Journal of Torah and Science (2015-2016): 53-56.</fn> point to the role of epigenetics.</li>
<li><b>Professional herder's knowledge</b> – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.<fn>See e.g. Scott Noegel, "Sex, Sticks, and the Trickster in Gen. 30:31-43: A New Look at an Old Crux", Journal of Ancient Near Eastern Society 25 (1997), 7-17.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Professional herder's knowledge</b> – Some scholars suggest that Yaakov used his knowledge of animal behavior to promote breeding in his animals and inhibit breeding in Lavan's animals.<fn>ראו למשל Scott Noegel, "Sex, Sticks, and the Trickster in Gen. 30:31-43: A New Look at an Old Crux", Journal of Ancient Near Eastern Society 25 (1997), 7-17.</fn></li>
 
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<subcategory>Miraculous Might?
 
<subcategory>Miraculous Might?
 
<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p><ul>
 
<p>When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.&#160; Two stories might question that assumption:</p><ul>
<li><b>Removing the stone</b>&#160; In&#160;<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
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<li><b>Removing the stone</b> – ב<a href="Bereshit29-1-10" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט</a> we read how Yaakov arrived in Charan to find several shepherds waiting to water their flocks until enough gathered to remove the huge boulder which covered the well.&#160; However, as soon as Yaakov sets eyes on Rachel, he manages to roll the stone off by himself.</li>
 
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<li><b>Super strength</b> -&#160;<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink> points out that in this story, the Torah tangentially shares that Yaakov, and not only Esav, possessed great physical strength.<fn>See also <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>, "להודיע גבורתו בא הכתוב".</fn>&#160; He points out, though, that Yaakov is never seen using his strength to hurt those weaker than himself.</li>
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<li><b>Super strength</b>&#160;<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">ר׳ דוד צבי הופמן</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:י׳</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד צבי הופמן</a></multilink> points out that in this story, the Torah tangentially shares that Yaakov, and not only Esav, possessed great physical strength.<fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink>, "להודיע גבורתו בא הכתוב".</fn>&#160; He points out, though, that Yaakov is never seen using his strength to hurt those weaker than himself.</li>
<li><b>Ordinary strength</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> suggests that really the only reason the other shepherds could not remove the stone on their own was because they were still youths and not yet full grown adults like Yaakov.&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:10</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> also posits that Yaakov was no stronger than the average and that he was capable of removing the boulder only due to Hashem's help.<fn>He writes, "והיה לו זה מברכת האל שנתן לו כח יתירה.". He also raises the possibility that Yaakov actually removed the stone only with the other shepherds' help.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Ordinary strength</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:י׳</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink> suggests that really the only reason the other shepherds could not remove the stone on their own was because they were still youths and not yet full grown adults like Yaakov.&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-10" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:י׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> also posits that Yaakov was no stronger than the average and that he was capable of removing the boulder only due to Hashem's help.<fn>הוא כותב: "והיה לו זה מברכת האל שנתן לו כח יתירה.". He also raises the possibility that Yaakov actually removed the stone only with the other shepherds' help.</fn></li>
 
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<li><b>Wrestling with angels?</b> – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".&#160; If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
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<li><b>האבקות עם מלאכים?</b> – A similar question arises with regards to Yaakov's wrestling match with the mysterious "איש".&#160; If Yaakov's opponent was an angel, as most commentators maintain, how was he able to overcome him?&#160; ראו <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">"שרית עם א-להים ואנשים"</a>.</li>
 
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<category>Possible Sins / Flaws
 
<category>Possible Sins / Flaws
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Sale of the Birthright
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה</a> discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.&#160; Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?&#160; Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see <a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page">מכירת הבכורה עסקה הוגנת?</a>]</p><ul>
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25</a> discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.&#160; Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?&#160; Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see <a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page">Sale of the Birthright A Fair Deal?</a>]</p><ul>
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<li><b>Esav was unworthy</b> – לפי <a href="BereshitRabbah63-13" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a> ו<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">רש״י</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:ל״א-ל״ד</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שלמה יצחקי</a></multilink>, the birthright was a spiritual commodity, namely the priestly status, which Esav was both unworthy of and uninterested in receiving.</li>
<li><b>Esav was unworthy</b> – According to&#160;<a href="BereshitRabbah63-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a> and <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, the birthright was a spiritual commodity, namely the priestly status, which Esav was both unworthy of and uninterested in receiving.</li>
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<li><b>Yaakov paid fair value</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:ל״א-ל״ד</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> claims that Yaakov paid for the birthright in full, with money.&#160; The accompanying meal served simply to seal the deal.&#160; <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">אבן עזרא</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ראשון כ״ה:ל״א-ל״ד</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink>, instead, suggests that the birthright was almost worthless since Yitzchak was penniless. As such, the lentil stew was a fair price.</li>
<li><b>Yaakov paid fair value</b>&#160;–&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> claims that Yaakov paid for the birthright in full, with money.&#160; The accompanying meal served simply to seal the deal.&#160; <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary25-31-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 25:31-34</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink>, instead, suggests that the birthright was almost worthless since Yitzchak was penniless. As such, the lentil stew was a fair price.</li>
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<li><b>Right to look out for one's self</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-29-30" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-29-30" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ט-ל׳</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink> assumes that the birthright granted the eldest son the rights to the father's entire estate, claiming that under such circumstances Yaakov had the right to put his own interests ahead of his brother's.</li>
<li><b>Right to look out for one's self</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-29-30" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-29-30" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:29-30</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> assumes that the birthright granted the eldest son the rights to the father's entire estate, claiming that under such circumstances Yaakov had the right to put his own interests ahead of his brother's.</li>
 
 
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<subcategory>Taking the Blessing
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<p><a href="Bereshit27-1-30" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27</a>&#160;describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.&#160; How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?&#160; Was he a willing or unwilling participant?&#160;&#160; Were his actions justified?</p><ul>
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<p><a href="Bereshit27-1-30" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז</a>&#160;describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.&#160; How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?&#160; Was he a willing or unwilling participant?&#160;&#160; Were his actions justified?</p><ul>
 
<li><b>Justified</b> –Several commentators suggest that Yaakov's deceit was justified:</li>
 
<li><b>Justified</b> –Several commentators suggest that Yaakov's deceit was justified:</li>
 
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<li><b>Heeding mother and prophecy</b> – <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>suggests that Yaakov was simply acting according to his mother's wishes. Moreover since he was the worthy son, and acting to fulfill the prophecy,<fn>See&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit27-13" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit27-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:13</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> who precedes him on this point.</fn> his deception was justified.<fn>See&#160;<multilink><a href="OrHaChayyimBereshit27-8" data-aht="source">Or HaChayyim</a><a href="OrHaChayyimBereshit27-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:8</a><a href="R. Chayyim b. Atar (Or HaChayyim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Chayyim b. Atar</a></multilink> who goes a step further claiming that there is&#160; a Torah obligation to listen to a true prophet even if they give a one -time command to transgress a law, so Yaakov was justified in his deception.</fn>&#160;</li>
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<li><b>Heeding mother and prophecy</b> – <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ט</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink>suggests that Yaakov was simply acting according to his mother's wishes. Moreover since he was the worthy son, and acting to fulfill the prophecy,<fn>ראו <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit27-13" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit27-13" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ג</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> who precedes him on this point.</fn> his deception was justified.<fn>ראו <multilink><a href="OrHaChayyimBereshit27-8" data-aht="source">אור החיים</a><a href="OrHaChayyimBereshit27-8" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:ח׳</a><a href="R. Chayyim b. Atar (Or HaChayyim)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' חיים בן עטר</a></multilink> who goes a step further claiming that there is&#160; a Torah obligation to listen to a true prophet even if they give a one -time command to transgress a law, so Yaakov was justified in his deception.</fn>&#160;</li>
<li><b>Retrieving a loss</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:10</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, instead, claims that when Yaakov bought the birthright, he bought the rights to the blessing.&#160; Since Esav was trying to renege on the deal, Yaakov cannot be blamed for trying to retrieve was was rightfully his.</li>
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<li><b>Retrieving a loss</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit27-10" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י׳</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink>, instead, claims that when Yaakov bought the birthright, he bought the rights to the blessing.&#160; Since Esav was trying to renege on the deal, Yaakov cannot be blamed for trying to retrieve was was rightfully his.</li>
 
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<li><b>Mitigate wrong-doing</b>&#160;– Others attempt to mitigate Yaakov's wrong-doing, even if they do not totally justify his actions. <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">65:18</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink> attempt to minimize Yaakov's lying by re-punctuating his words "אָנֹכִי עֵשָׂו בְּכֹרֶךָ" to read "אנכי – המביא לך, ועשו הוא בכורך."<multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source"> HaKetav veHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:12</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, instead, defends Yaakov by&#160; suggesting that he was an unwilling participant, and even hoped to be found out.</li>
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<li><b>Mitigate wrong-doing</b>&#160;– Others attempt to mitigate Yaakov's wrong-doing, even if they do not totally justify his actions. <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah65-18" data-aht="source">ס״ה:י״ח</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">רש״י</a><a href="RashiBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ט</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שלמה יצחקי</a></multilink> attempt to minimize Yaakov's lying by re-punctuating his words "אָנֹכִי עֵשָׂו בְּכֹרֶךָ" to read "אנכי – המביא לך, ועשו הוא בכורך." בעל <multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source">הכתב והקבלה</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit27-12" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ב</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יעקב מקלנבורג</a></multilink>, instead, defends Yaakov by&#160; suggesting that he was an unwilling participant, and even hoped to be found out.</li>
<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Tanchuma</a><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">Vayetze 11</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">About the Tanchuma</a></multilink> suggests that Yaakov sinned and was punished measure for measure for his trickery.</li>
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<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">תנחומא</a><a href="TanchumaBuberVayetze11" data-aht="source">ויצא הוספה י״א</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">אודות התנחומא</a></multilink> suggests that Yaakov sinned and was punished measure for measure for his trickery.</li>
 
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<subcategory>חוסר ביטחון בה'?
Lack of Trust in Hashem?
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<p>ב<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳-ח׳</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>ראו דברי ה' ליעקב ב<a href="Bereshit28-10-18" data-aht="source">בראשית כ"ח:ט"ו</a>: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p><ul>
<p>In <a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a>, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,<fn>See Hashem's words to Yaakov in <a href="Bereshit28-10-18" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:15</a>: "וְהִנֵּה אָנֹכִי עִמָּךְ וּשְׁמַרְתִּיךָ בְּכֹל אֲשֶׁר תֵּלֵךְ וַהֲשִׁבֹתִיךָ אֶל הָאֲדָמָה הַזֹּאת".</fn> should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?</p><ul>
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<li><b>No lack of faith</b>&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">ע״ו:ב׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink><fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ט</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ד׳</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:כ״ו</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב הקדמה</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">רש״ר הירש</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ח׳</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמשון רפאל הירש</a></multilink> ואחרים.&#160; בראשית רבה מציע that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:י״ב-י״ג</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink>,<fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">אבן עזרא</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ראשון ל״ב:ט׳</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink> והדעה שנדחתה על ידי <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:י״ג</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
<li><b>No lack of faith</b> -&#160; <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah76-2" data-aht="source">76:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See also<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source"> Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32Introduction" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32 Introduction</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> and others.&#160; Bereshit Rabbah suggests that Yaakov feared not only that he sinned, but also that Esav's merits in honoring his parents (and Yaakov's inability to do the same) might give Esav the upper hand.</fn> explains that Yaakov thought that he might have sinned and therefore no longer deserved Hashem's blessing. <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-12-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:12-13</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>,<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary32-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 32:9</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and the opinion rejected by <multilink><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit32-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, suggests that Yaakov thought that Hashem's blessing of providence might be limited to him, and though he would be saved, his family might come to harm.</li>
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<li><b>חוסר בטחון</b>&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:כ״ט</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">מלבי״ם</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ח׳</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' מאיר ליבוש וייזר</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ז</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ז:י״ט</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:כ״ו</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; ראו <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">"שרית עם א-להים ואנשים"</a>.</li>
<li><b>Lack of faith</b> - Both&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-29" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:29</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Malbim</a><a href="MalbimBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Meir Leibush Weiser (Malbim)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Meir Leibush Weiser</a></multilink> blame Yaakov for not trusting in Hashem.&#160; Rashbam even suggests that the attack by the angel was a punishment for this lack of trust.<fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:27</a><a href="RadakBereshit27-19" data-aht="source">Bereshit 27:19</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-26" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:26</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> who asserts that the injury to Yaakov's thigh was due to his lack of trust as betrayed by his subservience to Esav.</fn>&#160; See <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a>.</li>
 
 
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<subcategory name="Subservience">
 
<subcategory name="Subservience">
 
Subservience to Esav
 
Subservience to Esav
<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:3</a>). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p><ul>
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<p>Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ג׳</a>). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?</p><ul>
<li><b>Praiseworthy</b> – Zohar Vayishlach 115a</li>
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<li><b>ראוי לשבח</b> – זהר וישלח קט"ו.</li>
<li><b>Necessary</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:5</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">75:5</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
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<li><b>נצרך</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה ע״ה:ה׳</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-5" data-aht="source">ע״ה:ה׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink> suggests that such self degradation and flattery is necessary and pragmatic.</li>
<li><b>Problematic</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 75:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">75:2</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink><fn>See R"Y Medan's article "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: ספר בראשית" (Tel Aviv, 2014): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
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<li><b>בעייתי</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה ע״ה:ב׳</a><a href="BereshitRabbah75-2" data-aht="source">ע״ה:ב׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink><fn>ראו מאמר ר"י מדן, "המפגש ביו יעקב לעשו" in "כי קרוב אליך: ספר בראשית" (תל אביב, תשע"ד): 256-258, who elaborates on this position.&#160; He suggests that Yaakov's covenant with Lavan was similarly problematic.</fn> questions Yaakov's behavior, suggesting that the righteous never should humble themselves before the wicked.</li>
 
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<subcategory>Favored by Rivka
 
<subcategory>Favored by Rivka
<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a>&#160;shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).&#160; What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [For approaches as to why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see <a href="Why Bless Esav" data-aht="page">Why Bless Esav</a> and <a href="A Portrait of Esav" data-aht="page">A Portrait of Esav</a>.]</p><ul>
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<p><a href="Bereshit25-19-34" data-aht="source">בראשית כ"ה:כ"ח</a>&#160;shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).&#160; What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [For approaches as to why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see <a href="Why Bless Esav" data-aht="page">למה רצה יצחק לברך את עשו?</a> and <a href="A Portrait of Esav" data-aht="page">דמותו של עשו</a>.]</p><ul>
<li><b>The prophecy</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink> clams that Rivka's preference for Yaakov was a direct result of the prophecy which granted him superior status to his brother.</li>
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<li><b>The prophecy</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ח</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink> clams that Rivka's preference for Yaakov was a direct result of the prophecy which granted him superior status to his brother.</li>
<li><b>Character</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Ralbag </a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 25:27-28</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>and&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 28:5</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> assert that Rivka's preference related to Yaakov's character; she saw in him both the traits of integrity and mercy.<fn>Hoil Moshe suggests that the brothers' choice of profession betrays the difference in their characters. Esav, the hunter, was a harsh and violent man, unmerciful to beast and thus, probably also to man, while Yaakov, the shepherd, was full of caring and mercy. Cf.&#160;<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">Bereshit 25:28</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who suggests that women in general like those who raise animals.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Character</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah25-27-28" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה כ״ה:כ״ז-כ״ח</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">הואיל משה</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit28-5" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ח:ה׳</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה יצחק אשכנזי</a></multilink> assert that Rivka's preference related to Yaakov's character; she saw in him both the traits of integrity and mercy.<fn>בעל הואיל משה מציע that the brothers' choice of profession betrays the difference in their characters. Esav, the hunter, was a harsh and violent man, unmerciful to beast and thus, probably also to man, while Yaakov, the shepherd, was full of caring and mercy. השוו <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit25-28" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ה:כ״ח</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink> who suggests that women in general like those who raise animals.</fn></li>
 
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<subcategory>יעקב ועשו
<p>See above regarding Yaakov's<a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page"> buying of the birthright</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">taking the blessing</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a>).</p><ul>
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<p>ראו לעיל לגבי <a href="Sale of the Birthright – A Fair Deal" data-aht="page">קניית הבכורה</a> ו<a href="Yaakov's Taking of the Blessing" data-aht="page">לקיחת הברכה</a>. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (<a href="Bereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a>), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (<a href="Bereshit33-1-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a>).</p><ul>
<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Rashi</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shelomo Yitzchaki</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>, and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffman</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>See the first opinion in&#160;<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">Sifre Bemidbar</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">9:10</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">About Sifre Bemidbar</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">Bemidbar Rabbah</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">3:13</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bemidbar Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>See R. Yanai in <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah 78:9</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, and similarly in&#160;<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">7:5</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shir HaShirim Rabbah</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">Shemot Rabbah</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">5:10</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Shemot Rabbah</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>See, for example,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>See <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Still angry</b> – The majority of commentators<fn>ראו, לדוגמא, <multilink><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">רש״י</a><a href="RashiBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. Shelomo Yitzchaki (Rashi)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שלמה יצחקי</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">ר׳ אברהם בן הרמב״ם</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם בן הרמב"ם</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">ספורנו</a><a href="SefornoBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' עובדיה ספורנו</a></multilink>, ו<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">רד"צ הופמן</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד צבי הופמן</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.&#160; They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere<fn>ראו הדעה הראשונה ב<multilink><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">ספרי במדבר</a><a href="SifreBemidbar9-10" data-aht="source">ט׳:י׳</a><a href="Sifre Bemidbar" data-aht="parshan">אודות ספרי במדבר</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">במדבר רבה</a><a href="BemidbarRabbah3-13" data-aht="source">ג׳:י״ג</a><a href="Bemidbar Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות במדבר רבה</a></multilink>.</fn> (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)<fn>ראו ר' ינאי ב<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה ע״ח:ט׳</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">ע״ח:ט׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink>, ובדומה ב<multilink><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">שיר השירים רבה</a><a href="ShirHaShirimRabbah7-5" data-aht="source">ז׳:ה׳</a><a href="Shir HaShirim Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות שיר השירים רבה</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">שמות רבה</a><a href="ShemotRabbah5-10" data-aht="source">ה׳:י׳</a><a href="Shemot Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות שמות רבה</a></multilink>.</fn>, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,<fn>ראו, למשל,&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">ספורנו</a><a href="SefornoBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' עובדיה ספורנו</a></multilink>.</fn> or an act of Divine intervention.<fn>ראו <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">ר׳ דוד צבי הופמן</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד צבי הופמן</a></multilink>.</fn></li>
<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Rashbam</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7-8</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel b. Meir</a></multilink>,<fn>See also<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source"> Ibn Ezra's third commentary</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Third Commentary 32:7</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> which is influenced by Rashbam. The&#160;<multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Hoil Moshe</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:7</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>Cf .<multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit 32:8</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, see <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">Wrestling With Angels and Men</a> and <a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp</a>.]</li>
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<li><b>Anger dissipated</b>&#160;– <multilink><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">רשב״ם</a><a href="RashbamBereshit32-7-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳-ח׳</a><a href="R. Shemuel b. Meir (Rashbam)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר</a></multilink>,<fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">ראב"ע בפירושו השלישי</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitThirdCommentary32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש שלישי ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink> המושפע מרשב"ם. בעל <multilink><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">הואיל משה</a><a href="HoilMosheBereshit32-7" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ז׳</a><a href="R. Moshe Yitzchak Ashkenazi (Hoil Moshe)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה יצחק אשכנזי</a></multilink> also posits that Esav harbored no hatred and was perhaps coming with 400 soldiers so as to provide Yaakov with protection from dangers on the road.</fn> in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.<fn>השוו <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit32-8" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ב:ח׳</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink> who asserts that Esav's actions were ambiguous.&#160; It was this uncertainty as to whether he was approaching in peace or hatred that led to Yaakov's fear, since he did not know how to prepare for the meeting. If Esav had been coming in peace and Yaakov prepared for war, Esav might very well have a change of heart. Yet, if he did not prepare for war and Esav was intent on attack, Yaakov would be in danger.</fn> [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]&#160; Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, ראו <a href="Wrestling With Angels and Men" data-aht="page">"שרית עם א-להים ואנשים"</a> ו<a href="Yaakov's Dividing of his Camp" data-aht="page">יעקב מחלק את מחנהו</a>.]</li>
 
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Yaakov and Leah: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
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יעקב ולאה: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"
<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">verse</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p><ul>
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<p>In <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">בראשית כ"ט:ל"א</a>, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding <a href="Bereshit29-30-33" data-aht="source">פסוק</a>, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?</p><ul>
<li><b>Preferred Rachel</b> - Many commentators<fn>See, for example, <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 33:4</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 29:30</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R. S.R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> points to Devarim 21:15, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
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<li><b>העדיף את רחל</b>&#160;– Many commentators<fn>ראו, למשל, <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="RadakBereshit33-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ג:ד׳</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah29-30" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה כ״ט:ל׳</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">שד״ל</a><a href="ShadalBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל דוד לוצאטו</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">רש״ר הירש</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמשון רפאל הירש</a></multilink>.</fn> assume that Yaakov loved both wives; and that the word "hated" is a relative term, meaning only that Leah was not as loved as Rachel.<fn>As evidence,&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">רש״ר הירש</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמשון רפאל הירש</a></multilink> מצביע על דברים כ"א:ט"ו, "כִּי תִהְיֶיןָ לְאִישׁ שְׁתֵּי נָשִׁים הָאַחַת אֲהוּבָה וְהָאַחַת שְׂנוּאָה".&#160; Here, too, R. Hirsch suggests that the Torah is simply contrasting a loved and less loved wife.</fn></li>
<li><b>Hated Leah</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">71:2</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">78:9</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>, and the <multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Netziv</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">Bereshit 29:31</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
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<li><b>אכן שנא את לאה</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-2" data-aht="source">ע״א:ב׳</a><a href="BereshitRabbah78-9" data-aht="source">ע״ח:ט׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink>,&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink>, ו<multilink><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">נצי״ב</a><a href="NetzivBereshit29-31" data-aht="source">בראשית כ״ט:ל״א</a><a href="R. Naftali Tzvi Yehuda Berlin (Netziv)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' נפתלי צבי יהודה ברלין</a></multilink>, in contrast, assume that Yaakov actively hated Leah for her deceit.&#160; Love is built on trust, and after Leah's participation in Lavan's scheme, there was no trust for Yaakov to build upon.<fn>Ramban explains the phrase, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה" to mean that even though the way of the world is to love the woman that one has had first, in Yaakov's case this was not so; he also loved Rachel.</fn></li>
 
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<subcategory name="Yaakov and Rachel">
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<subcategory name="יעקב ורחל">
Yaakov and Rachel: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"
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יעקב ורחל: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"
<p>Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "Am I in God’s place, who has withheld from you the fruit of the womb?" (<a href="Bereshit30-1-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1-3</a>). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?</p>
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<p>Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "הֲתַחַת אֱ-לֹהִים אָנֹכִי אֲשֶׁר מָנַע מִמֵּךְ פְּרִי בָטֶן?" (<a href="Bereshit30-1-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:א׳-ג׳</a>). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?</p><ul>
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<li><b>מוצדק </b>– Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:</li>
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<li><b>Justified </b>– Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:</li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ב׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">ר׳ אברהם בן הרמב״ם</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ב׳</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם בן הרמב"ם</a></multilink><fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה ל׳:א׳-ב׳</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">ספורנו</a><a href="SefornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ב׳</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' עובדיה ספורנו</a></multilink>.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said: "Could you pray for me", Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
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<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:א׳</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink>,<fn>השוו <multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">רש״ר הירש</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ב׳</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמשון רפאל הירש</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">ר׳ דוד צבי הופמן</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:א׳-ב׳</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד צבי הופמן</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
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<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">עקדת יצחק</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ג׳</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יצחק עראמה</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
 
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<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">ע״א:ז׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink>maintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"</li>
<li><multilink><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Radak </a><a href="RadakBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink>and <multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink><fn>See also&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah30-1-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 30:1-2</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>.</fn> explain that Yaakov was justifiably angry that Rachel turned to him rather than Hashem, not recognizing that the matter was in Hashem's hands and not His.<fn>Had she instead said: "Could you pray for me", Yaakov would not have been upset.</fn></li>
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<li><b>Misunderstood</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">ר׳ יוסף בכור שור</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:ב׳-ג׳</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יוסף בכור שור</a></multilink><fn>ראו גם <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">שד״ל</a><a href="ShadalBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">בראשית ל׳:א׳</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל דוד לוצאטו</a></multilink>.</fn> asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.</li>
<li><multilink><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink>,<fn>Cf.&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit30-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> and <multilink><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">R. D"Z Hoffmann</a><a href="RDavidZviHoffmannBereshit30-1-2" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1-2</a><a href="R. David Zvi Hoffmann" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Zvi Hoffmann</a></multilink>.</fn> instead, assumes that Rachel had in fact asked that Yaakov pray to Hashem, but her mistake was is in viewing Yaakov's prayer as some type of automatic magical remedy.&#160; Yaakov taught her that even the prayers of the righteous are not always answered.</li>
 
<li>Finally,&#160;<multilink><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Akeidat Yitzchak</a><a href="AkeidatYitzchakBereshitPeirush3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Peirush 3</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Arama (Akeidat Yitzchak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Arama</a></multilink> views Yaakov as upset that Rachel did not realize that her primary purpose in life was not simply to bear children, but to fill her life "בדברי שכל וחסידות".&#160; Her barrenness was not a reason to think her life was not worth living.</li>
 
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<li><b>Unjustified</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah </a><a href="BereshitRabbah71-7" data-aht="source">71:7</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>maintains that Yaakov was in the wrong, presenting Hashem as responding to Yaakov, "כך עונין את המעיקות?!"</li>
 
<li><b>Misunderstood</b> – <multilink><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">R"Y Bekhor Shor</a><a href="RYosefBekhorShorBereshit30-2-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:2-3</a><a href="R. Yosef Bekhor Shor" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yosef Bekhor Shor</a></multilink><fn>See also <multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit30-1" data-aht="source">Bereshit 30:1</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink>.</fn> asserts that Yaakov misunderstood his wife, assuming that she was expecting him to somehow do what Hashem had not, when Rachel had meant only that he should take her maidservant and sire children from her so that Rachel could be their surrogate mother.</li>
 
 
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<subcategory name="Bilhah and Zilpah">
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<subcategory name="בלהה וזלפה">
Status of Bilhah and Zilpah
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מעמד בלהה וזלפה
<p>Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).&#160; In <a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a>, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (excepting 35:25-26), they are never again referred to as servants, and in&#160;<a href="Bereshit37-1-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:2</a> both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?&#160; Did their status change over time?</p><ul>
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<p>Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).&#160; In <a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ה:כ״ב</a>, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (חוץ מבראשית ל"ה:כ"ה-כ"ו), they are never again referred to as servants, and in&#160;<a href="Bereshit37-1-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ב׳</a> both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?&#160; Did their status change over time?</p><ul>
<li><b>Changing status</b> – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.&#160; See <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a>.</li>
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<li><b>Changing status</b> – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.&#160; See <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">מעשה ראובן ובלהה</a>.</li>
 
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<category>Children
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Births of Yaakov's Children
 
 
<p>A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule<fn>Though it is possible to bear seven children in the same number of years, given that in the middle there was a hiatus in which Leah could not conceive for long enough to make her give her maidservant to Yaakov, the story is difficult.</fn> but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.</p><ul>
 
<p>A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule<fn>Though it is possible to bear seven children in the same number of years, given that in the middle there was a hiatus in which Leah could not conceive for long enough to make her give her maidservant to Yaakov, the story is difficult.</fn> but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.</p><ul>
<li>For details regarding the chronology, its difficulties, and potential solutions, see <a href="The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children" data-aht="page">The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children</a>.</li>
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<li>For details regarding the chronology, its difficulties, and potential solutions, see <a href="The Births and Relative Ages of Yaakov's Children" data-aht="page">הכרונולוגיה של הולדת בני יעקב</a>.</li>
 
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<subcategory>העדפת יוסף
<p><b>I. "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ"</b> – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "&#8206;כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".&#8206; What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?</p><ul>
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<p><b>I. "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ"</b> – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".&#8206; What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?</p><ul>
<li><b>Similar to father</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah84-8" data-aht="source">Bereshit Rabbah</a><a href="BereshitRabbah84-8" data-aht="source">84:8</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">About Bereshit Rabbah</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="TanchumaVayeshev2" data-aht="source">Tanchuma</a><a href="TanchumaVayeshev2" data-aht="source">Vayeshev 2</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">About the Tanchuma</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="TargumPseudo-JonathanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Targum Yerushalmi (Yonatan)</a><a href="TargumPseudo-JonathanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="Targum Yerushalmi (Yonatan)" data-aht="parshan">About Targum Yerushalmi (Yonatan)</a></multilink> all suggests that Yaakov's favoritism stemmed from the similarity between father and son.</li>
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<li><b>Similar to father</b> – <multilink><a href="BereshitRabbah84-8" data-aht="source">בראשית רבה</a><a href="BereshitRabbah84-8" data-aht="source">פ״ד:ח׳</a><a href="Bereshit Rabbah" data-aht="parshan">אודות בראשית רבה</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="TanchumaVayeshev2" data-aht="source">תנחומא</a><a href="TanchumaVayeshev2" data-aht="source">וישב ב׳</a><a href="Tanchuma" data-aht="parshan">אודות התנחומא</a></multilink>, ו<multilink><a href="TargumPseudo-JonathanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">תרגום ירושלמי (יונתן)</a><a href="TargumPseudo-JonathanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="Targum Yerushalmi (Yonatan)" data-aht="parshan">אודות תרגום ירושלמי (יונתן)</a></multilink> all suggests that Yaakov's favoritism stemmed from the similarity between father and son.</li>
<li><b>Actions/ traits</b> – <multilink><a href="TargumOnkelosBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Targum Onkelos</a><a href="TargumOnkelosBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="Targum Onkelos" data-aht="parshan">About Targum Onkelos</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary37-3" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 37:3</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Radak</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">About R. David Kimchi</a></multilink> maintain that "בֶן זְקֻנִים" means "wise" and it was this trait which led to the extra love.&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> instead suggests that Yosef was chosen to serve his father, and this created the close bond.</li>
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<li><b>Actions/ traits</b> – <multilink><a href="TargumOnkelosBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">תרגום אונקלוס</a><a href="TargumOnkelosBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="Targum Onkelos" data-aht="parshan">אודות תרגום אונקלוס</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary37-3" data-aht="source">אבן עזרא</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ראשון ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink>, ו<multilink><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">רד״ק</a><a href="RadakBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. David Kimchi (Radak)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' דוד קמחי</a></multilink> maintain that "בֶן זְקֻנִים" means "wise" and it was this trait which led to the extra love.&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink> instead suggests that Yosef was chosen to serve his father, and this created the close bond.</li>
<li><b>Age-related</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">R. Avraham b. HaRambam</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham Maimonides</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">Shadal</a><a href="ShadalBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Shemuel David Luzzatto</a></multilink> assert that, for several years until Binyamin's birth, Yosef had been treated as the youngest child and the favoritism remained even once he no longer had that status.&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 37:3</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> instead suggests that Yosef was similar to a child born in old age since was born after Yaakov had despaired of having a child by Rachel.</li>
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<li><b>Age-related</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">ר׳ אברהם בן הרמב״ם</a><a href="RAvrahambHaRambamBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Avraham Maimonides" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם בן הרמב"ם</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="ShadalBereshit25-27" data-aht="source">שד״ל</a><a href="ShadalBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Shemuel David Luzzatto (Shadal)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמואל דוד לוצאטו</a></multilink> assert that, for several years until Binyamin's birth, Yosef had been treated as the youngest child and the favoritism remained even once he no longer had that status.&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> instead suggests that Yosef was similar to a child born in old age since was born after Yaakov had despaired of having a child by Rachel.</li>
 
</ul><p><b> II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים"</b> – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?</p><ul>
 
</ul><p><b> II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים"</b> – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?</p><ul>
<li><b> Show of love</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaParashah 37:3</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink></li>
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<li><b> הפגנת אהבה</b> – <multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaParashah37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור הפרשה ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink></li>
<li><b> Sign of leadership or chosen status</b> – <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">HaKetav VeHaKabbalah</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yaakov Mecklenburg</a></multilink>, and&#160;<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">R. Hirsch</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">Bereshit 37:3</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">About R. Samson Raphael Hirsch</a></multilink> suggest that the cloak was a sign of stature. This reading might suggest that the siblings were not merely engaged in common sibling rivalry, but in a competition as to who was to be the "chosen son" and merit to continue the line of Avraham.<fn>Though the reader knows that in the end all of the sons of Yaakov were chosen, it is very possible that the brothers, and even Yaakov himself, did not know this. See&#160;<a href="Yosef's Treatment of his Family" data-aht="page">Yosef's Treatment of his Family</a> for how this might have affected the siblings' interactions throughout the narrative.</fn></li>
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<li><b> Sign of leadership or chosen status</b> – <multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">ספורנו</a><a href="SefornoBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' עובדיה ספורנו</a></multilink>, <multilink><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">הכתב והקבלה</a><a href="HaKetavVeHaKabbalahBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Yaakov Mecklenburg (HaKetav VeHaKabbalah)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יעקב מקלנבורג</a></multilink>, ו<multilink><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">רש״ר הירש</a><a href="RSRHirschBereshit37-3" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ז:ג׳</a><a href="R. Samson Raphael Hirsch" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' שמשון רפאל הירש</a></multilink> suggest that the cloak was a sign of stature. This reading might suggest that the siblings were not merely engaged in common sibling rivalry, but in a competition as to who was to be the "chosen son" and merit to continue the line of Avraham.<fn>Though the reader knows that in the end all of the sons of Yaakov were chosen, it is very possible that the brothers, and even Yaakov himself, did not know this. See&#160;<a href="Yosef's Treatment of his Family" data-aht="page">התנהגות יוסף כלפי משפחתו</a> for how this might have affected the siblings' interactions throughout the narrative.</fn></li>
</ul><p><b>III. Double Portion</b>&#160;In <a href="Bereshit48-3-5" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a>, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [See <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yosef's Double Portion</a> for elaboration.]</p><ul>
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</ul><p><b>III. פי שניים</b> – ב<a href="Bereshit48-3-5" data-aht="source">בראשית מ״ח</a>, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [ראו <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">פי שניים של יוסף</a> for elaboration.]</p><ul>
<li><b>Love</b> – Ralbag, Tzeror HaMor, Or HaChayyim assume that the choice did indeed stem from Yaakov's love for Rachel, and by extension, Yosef.</li>
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<li><b>אהבה</b> – רלב"ג, צרור המור, ואור החיים assume that the choice did indeed stem from Yaakov's love for Rachel, and by extension, Yosef.</li>
<li><b>Prophecy</b> –&#160; <a href="RShemuelbChofniGaonBereshit48-4-7" data-aht="source">R. Shemuel b. Chofni Gaon</a>,&#160;<multilink><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Abarbanel</a><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Abarbanel" data-aht="parshan">About R. Yitzchak Abarbanel</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Seforno</a><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit 48:4</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">About R. Ovadyah Seforno</a></multilink> suggest that Yaakov chose to give Yosef a double portion since he understood Hashem's prophecy, "וּנְתַתִּיךָ לִקְהַל עַמִּים" to refer specifically to Menashe and Ephraim.</li>
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<li><b>נבואה</b> –&#160; <a href="RShemuelbChofniGaonBereshit48-4-7" data-aht="source">ר׳ שמואל בן חפני גאון</a>,&#160;<multilink><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">אברבנאל</a><a href="AbarbanelBereshit48" data-aht="source">בראשית מ״ח</a><a href="R. Yitzchak Abarbanel" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' יצחק אברבנאל</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">ספורנו</a><a href="SefornoBereshit48-4" data-aht="source">בראשית מ״ח:ד׳</a><a href="R. Ovadyah Seforno" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' עובדיה ספורנו</a></multilink> suggest that Yaakov chose to give Yosef a double portion since he understood Hashem's prophecy, "וּנְתַתִּיךָ לִקְהַל עַמִּים" to refer specifically to Menashe and Ephraim.</li>
<li><b>Replacing Reuven</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Ibn Ezra</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">Bereshit First Commentary 48:16</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">About R. Avraham ibn Ezra</a></multilink> and&#160;<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Ralbag</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">Bereshit Beur HaMilot 48:4</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Levi b. Gershom</a></multilink> assert that the choice was a consequence of Reuven's rejection.&#160; In the aftermath of Reuven's deed, Yaakov transferred the birthright from the firstborn of his first wife to the firstborn of his second wife, Rachel.</li>
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<li><b>במקום ראובן</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">אבן עזרא</a><a href="IbnEzraBereshitFirstCommentary48-16" data-aht="source">בראשית פירוש ראשון מ״ח:ט״ז</a><a href="R. Avraham ibn Ezra" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' אברהם אבן עזרא</a></multilink> ו<multilink><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">רלב״ג</a><a href="RalbagBereshitBeurHaMilot48-4" data-aht="source">בראשית ביאור המילות מ״ח:ד׳</a><a href="R. Levi b. Gershom (Ralbag, Gersonides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' לוי בן גרשום</a></multilink> assert that the choice was a consequence of Reuven's rejection.&#160; In the aftermath of Reuven's deed, Yaakov transferred the birthright from the firstborn of his first wife to the firstborn of his second wife, Rachel.</li>
<li><b>Incentive</b>&#160;– R. Weitman<fn>See his article,&#160;<a href="https://www.etzion.org.il/he/%D7%95%D7%99%D7%97%D7%99-%D7%99%D7%A2%D7%A7%D7%91-%E2%80%93-%D7%91%D7%90%D7%A8%D7%A5-%D7%9E%D7%A6%D7%A8%D7%99%D7%9D">"ויחי יעקב - בארץ מצרים"</a> (Parashat Vayechi, 5773).</fn> assumes that Yosef and his sons had begin to assimilate into Egyptian society and that Yaakov gave Yosef a double portion of the land as an incentive to remain in the fold and to return to Israel.</li>
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<li><b>Incentive</b>&#160;– ר' ויטמן<fn>ראו מאמרו,&#160;<a href="https://www.etzion.org.il/he/%D7%95%D7%99%D7%97%D7%99-%D7%99%D7%A2%D7%A7%D7%91-%E2%80%93-%D7%91%D7%90%D7%A8%D7%A5-%D7%9E%D7%A6%D7%A8%D7%99%D7%9D">"ויחי יעקב - בארץ מצרים"</a> (פרשת ויחי, תשע"ג).</fn> assumes that Yosef and his sons had begin to assimilate into Egyptian society and that Yaakov gave Yosef a double portion of the land as an incentive to remain in the fold and to return to Israel.</li>
 
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<p><a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">Bereshit 35:22</a> recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?&#160; For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, see <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">Reuven and Bilhah</a></p>
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<p><a href="Bereshit35-22-25" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ה:כ״ב</a> recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?&#160; For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, ראו <a href="Reuven and Bilhah" data-aht="page">מעשה ראובן ובלהה</a>.</p>
 
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Shimon and Levi: The Incident in Shekhem
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שמעון ולוי: מעשה שכם
<p>Bereshit 34 describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn>&#160; Either way, what had he planned to do instead?&#160; For full discussion of the incident, see <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem</a>.</p><ul>
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<p>בראשית ל"ד describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".&#160; Did Yaakov views their actions&#160; as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?<fn>This, in part, depends on whether one understands his deathbed speech to the two brothers ("בְּסֹדָם אַל תָּבֹא נַפְשִׁי בִּקְהָלָם אַל תֵּחַד כְּבֹדִי כִּי בְאַפָּם הָרְגוּ אִישׁ וּבִרְצֹנָם עִקְּרוּ שׁוֹר") as referring to this incident.&#160; If so, it would seem that Yaakov was also condemning the morality of Shimon and Levi's actions.</fn>&#160; Either way, what had he planned to do instead?&#160; For full discussion of the incident, ראו <a href="Sin and Slaughter of Shekhem" data-aht="page">חטא שכם ותגובת בני יעקב</a>.</p><ul>
<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
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<li><b>Retrieve Dinah</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ד:י״ג</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink> asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.</li>
<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Ramban</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">Bereshit 34:13</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">About R. Moshe b. Nachman</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
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<li><b>Kill only the guilty</b> –&#160;<multilink><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">רמב״ן</a><a href="RambanBereshit34-13" data-aht="source">בראשית ל״ד:י״ג</a><a href="R. Moshe b. Nachman (Ramban, Nachmanides)" data-aht="parshan">אודות ר' משה בן נחמן</a></multilink> also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.</li>
 
<li><b>Give Dinah in marriage</b> – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.<fn>According to this understanding, the condition to circumcise included a rejection of idolatry. As there were no other commandments at this time, perhaps this sufficed to become part of the Israelite nation. If so, making alliances such as this might have been an alternative to military conquest.</fn> The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land. &#160;</li>
 
<li><b>Give Dinah in marriage</b> – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.<fn>According to this understanding, the condition to circumcise included a rejection of idolatry. As there were no other commandments at this time, perhaps this sufficed to become part of the Israelite nation. If so, making alliances such as this might have been an alternative to military conquest.</fn> The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land. &#160;</li>
 
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<subcategory>Blessings to Sons
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<p>Bereshit 49 details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "what will happen to them at the end of days". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p><ul>
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<p>בראשית מ"ט details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "אֵת אֲשֶׁר יִקְרָא אֶתְכֶם בְּאַחֲרִית הַיָּמִים". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?&#160; What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.</p><ul>
<li>For analysis of Yehuda's blessing, see <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">Yehuda's Blessing Eternal Kingship?</a></li>
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<li>לעיון בברכת יהודה, ראו: <a href="Yehuda's Blessing – Eternal Kingship" data-aht="page">ברכת יהודה מלכות נצחית?</a></li>
<li>For discussion of Yosef's blessing, see <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef</a>.</li>
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<li>לעיון בברכת יוסף, ראו: <a href="Yaakov's Blessing of Yosef" data-aht="page">ברכת יעקב ליוסף</a>.</li>
 
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<p>Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?</p><ul>
 
<p>Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?</p><ul>
 
<li>Regarding the decision to grant Menashe and Ephraim tribal status, see discussion above and <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion</a>.</li>
 
<li>Regarding the decision to grant Menashe and Ephraim tribal status, see discussion above and <a href="Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Retrospective and Yosef's Double Portion</a>.</li>
<li>Regarding Yaakov's not recognizing his grandchildren, see <a href="When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe" data-aht="page">When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe</a>.</li>
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<li>Regarding Yaakov's not recognizing his grandchildren, ראו <a href="When Did Yaakov Bless Ephraim and Menashe" data-aht="page">מתי בירך יעקב את אפרים ומנשה?</a>.</li>
 
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Comparisons to Other Figures
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<li><b>Yaakov at the Well</b> – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?</li>
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<li><b>יעקב ליד הבאר</b> – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?</li>
<li><a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">Avraham and Yaakov</a> – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").&#8206; It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?&#160; See <a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">Avraham and Yaakov</a>.</li>
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<li><a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">אברהם ויעקב</a> – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").&#8206; It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?&#160; ראו <a href="Avraham and Yaakov" data-aht="page">אברהם ויעקב</a>.</li>
<li><a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">Yaakov and David</a> – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.&#160; What do these teach us?&#160; See <a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">Yaakov and David</a>.</li>
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<li><a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">יעקב ודוד</a> – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.&#160; What do these teach us?&#160; ראו <a href="Yaakov and David" data-aht="page">יעקב ודוד</a>.</li>
 
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<p>Art and music often serve as "modern midrash" on the Biblical text. The artists' choices reflect certain ambiguities in the text and different possible interpretive stances, making a wonderful foil through which to study the original story. Some examples follow:</p><ul>
 
<p>Art and music often serve as "modern midrash" on the Biblical text. The artists' choices reflect certain ambiguities in the text and different possible interpretive stances, making a wonderful foil through which to study the original story. Some examples follow:</p><ul>
<li>See <a href="Sale of the Birthright in Art" data-aht="page">Sale of the Birthright in Art</a></li>
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<li>ראו <a href="Sale of the Birthright in Art" data-aht="page">מכירת הבכורה באמנות</a></li>
<li>See <a href="Yaakov's Dream in Art" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Dream in Art</a></li>
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<li>ראו <a href="Yaakov's Dream in Art" data-aht="page">חלום יעקב באמנות</a></li>
<li>See <a href="Yaakov's Wrestling Match in Music" data-aht="page">Yaakov's Wrestling Match in Music</a></li>
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<li>ראו <a href="Yaakov's Wrestling Match in Music" data-aht="page">מאבק יעקב עם המלאך במוסיקה</a></li>
<li>See <a href="Yaakov and Esav's Reunion in Art" data-aht="page">Yaakov and Esav's Reunion in Art</a></li>
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<li>ראו <a href="Yaakov and Esav's Reunion in Art" data-aht="page">מפגש יעקב ועשו באמנות</a></li>
<li>See <a href="Blessing Ephraim and Menashe in Art" data-aht="page">Blessing Ephraim and Menashe in Art</a></li>
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<li>ראו <a href="Blessing Ephraim and Menashe in Art" data-aht="page">ברכת אפרים ומנשה באמנות</a></li>
 
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יעקב – סקירה

תרגום זה נמצא כעת בשלבי פיתוח וניתן בינתיים להשתמש בגרסה באנגלית

סקירה

The Yaakov narratives span half of Sefer Bereshit, giving the reader significant insight into his life and character. When describing himself to Paroh, Yaakov says, "מְעַט וְרָעִים הָיוּ יְמֵי שְׁנֵי חַיַּי" (few and unfortunate were the days of my life), a somewhat apt description of Yaakov's burden-filled years.  From the moment after he buys the birthright and receives the blessing of Yitzchak, his life is filled with misfortune upon misfortune. He is forced to flee from home, tricked into marrying an unwanted wife, and cheated in business. Upon his return to Israel, his daughter is raped and his favorite son, Yosef, is sold into slavery.

Yaakov's character is complex. He is described as an "אִישׁ תָּם", yet he deceives his brother.  He is courageous and powerful enough to fight an angel, yet passive in face of Shekhem's rape of Dinah.  He adores Rachel, yet he is one of the few husbands in Tanakh to explicitly rebuke his wife. How are we to understand these contrasting traits?  The page below explores Yaakov's character, relationships, and deeds as seen through the eyes of generations of commentators. Together, they weave a fascinating tapestry of the father of our nation.

Religious Identity

הנדר בבית אל

Upon awakening after his dream in Beit El (בראשית כ״ח:י״ח-כ״ב), Yaakov makes an oath, saying that if Hashem watches over him, "וְשַׁבְתִּי בְשָׁלוֹם אֶל בֵּית אָבִי וְהָיָה י"י לִי לֵא-לֹהִים וְהָאֶבֶן הַזֹּאת אֲשֶׁר שַׂמְתִּי מַצֵּבָה יִהְיֶה בֵּית אֱ-לֹהִים." It is unclear where Yaakov's request ends and his personal obligations begin.  Are the words "וְהָיָה ה' לִי לֵא-לֹהִים" part of what he expects from Hashem, or what he will do for Hashem?  If the latter, what is he promising to do?  Was Hashem not already his God?

שמירת מצוות

The issue of whether or not the Avot kept the mitzvot has been hotly debated for generations. On one hand, they lived centuries before the Torah was given and many of its laws would be meaningless to them.  Moreover, there are certain prohibitions which the Torah testifies to their having transgressed, such as Yaakov's marrying two wives. On the other hand, it seems paradoxical to conceive of the founders of a religion not observing even its most basic commandments.

תכונות מיוחדות

"וְיַעֲקֹב אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים"

בראשית כ״ה introduces Yaakov by telling the reader that he was an "אִישׁ תָּם יֹשֵׁב אֹהָלִים". What, though, do each of these descriptions mean? Do they speak of spiritual aspects of Yaakov's personality or of more mundane character traits?

Sheep Breeder

בראשית ל' highlights Yaakov's success in sheep breeding.  While בראשית ל׳:ל״ז-ל״ט speaks of a ploy performed by placing certain peeled branches in front of the mating sheep, בראשית ל״א:ז׳-י״ב suggests that Hashem's hand and a prophetic dream guided him. Was Yaakov's success due to knowledge of science and nature, or was it miraculous, due only to Divine providence?

Miraculous Might?

When imagining Yaakov and Esav, many picture Esav as being physically fit and mighty, and Yaakov being of ordinary, or perhaps even under average, strength.  Two stories might question that assumption:

Possible Sins / Flaws

מכירת הבכורה

בראשית כ״ה discusses Yaakov's buying of the birthright from the famished Esav. The story raises several question regarding the ethics of Yaakov's actions.  Did he not exploit his brother's hunger for his own gain? Is not buying the birthright for a mere pot of lentils considered extortion?  Commentators attempt to defend Yaakov's behavior in a number of ways: [For a full discussion of the issue, see מכירת הבכורה – עסקה הוגנת?]

לקיחת הברכה

בראשית כ״ז describes Rivka's machinations to ensure that Yitzchak's blessing go to Yaakov rather than Esav.  How should Yaakov's role in the deception of his father be viewed?  Was he a willing or unwilling participant?   Were his actions justified?

חוסר ביטחון בה'?

בבראשית ל״ב:ז׳-ח׳, after hearing that Esav is approaching him with 400 men, Yaakov reacts with fear: "וַיִּירָא יַעֲקֹב מְאֹד וַיֵּצֶר לוֹ". Given that Hashem had promised Yaakov that He would watch over him,10 should this fear be interpreted negatively as betraying a lack of trust in Hashem?

Subservience to Esav

Commentators debate how to evaluate Yaakov's extreme acts of subservience to his brother (בראשית ל״ג:ג׳). Is it wrong to degrade one's self and show weakness to an enemy?

הורים ואחים

Favored by Rivka

בראשית כ"ה:כ"ח shares that while Yitzchak preferred Esav, Rivka favored Yaakov (וְרִבְקָה אֹהֶבֶת אֶת יַעֲקֹב).  What led Rivka to love Yaakov? [For approaches as to why Yitzchak, in contrast, might have loved Esav, see למה רצה יצחק לברך את עשו? and דמותו של עשו.]

יעקב ועשו

ראו לעיל לגבי קניית הבכורה ולקיחת הברכה. How did these incidents impact the siblings' relationship in the long term? When they meet again decades later, is Esav still angry at Yaakov or has time healed the rift? On one hand, we read how Esav approached Yaakov with 400 men (בראשית ל״ב:ז׳), leading Yaakov to prepare for war. On the other hand when the two do finally meet, Esav embraces and cries on his brother's shoulders (בראשית ל״ג:ד׳).

  • Still angry – The majority of commentators16 assume that Esav was still angry and was approaching with 400 men, intent on attacking Yaakov.  They explain Esav's kissing of Yaakov in Bereshit 33 to be either insincere17 (or even an attempt to harm Yaakov)18, a result of Yaakov's successful attempts at appeasement,19 or an act of Divine intervention.20
  • Anger dissipated – רשב״םבראשית ל״ב:ז׳-ח׳אודות ר' שמואל בן מאיר,21 in contrast, assumes that Esav harbored no ill will and was coming to greet Yaakov with 400 men who were to serve as an honor guard.22 [It was only Yaakov who, in his fear, interpreted the entourage as having evil intent.]  Esav's embrace and tears at the end of the story are understood to be sincere expressions of brotherly love. [For elaboration on this reading, ראו "שרית עם א-להים ואנשים" ויעקב מחלק את מחנהו.]

נשים

יעקב ולאה: "כִּי שְׂנוּאָה לֵאָה"

In בראשית כ"ט:ל"א, Leah is referred to as "שְׂנוּאָה", one who is hated. In the immediately preceding פסוק, however, we read, "וַיֶּאֱהַב גַּם אֶת רָחֵל מִלֵּאָה", suggesting that she, too, was loved, but less so than Rachel. Did Yaakov actively dislike Leah, or was she simply not his first choice?

יעקב ורחל: "וַיִּחַר אַף יַעֲקֹב בְּרָחֵל"

Despite Yaakov's love for Rachel, when Rachel complains to Yaakov, "הָבָה לִּי בָנִים וְאִם אַיִן מֵתָה אָנֹכִי", he responds in anger: "הֲתַחַת אֱ-לֹהִים אָנֹכִי אֲשֶׁר מָנַע מִמֵּךְ פְּרִי בָטֶן?" (בראשית ל׳:א׳-ג׳). Is Yaakov's anger at his wife justified?

  • מוצדק – Many commentators assume that Yaakov's anger was justified:

מעמד בלהה וזלפה

Throughout the first section of the Yaakov narratives, Bilhah and Zilpah are consistently referred to a maidservants (of either Lavan, Rachel and Leah, or Yaakov).  In בראשית ל״ה:כ״ב, during the incident with Reuven, Bilhah is referred to as a concubine. Afterwards, (חוץ מבראשית ל"ה:כ"ה-כ"ו), they are never again referred to as servants, and in בראשית ל״ז:ב׳ both are even spoken of as "Yaakov's wives". How did Yaakov view Bilhah and Zilpah: as real wives, concubines, or simply surrogate mothers?  Did their status change over time?

  • Changing status – It is possible that in sleeping with Bilhah, Reuven wanted to demonstrate that she was not a full wife (and, thus, that her sons were not contenders for the birthright), enabling him to eliminate competition and solidify his rights to inherit the mantle of leadership from his father. If so, it is possible that his plan backfired and that, in response, Yaakov ensured that Bilhah and Zilpah attained full wife status, and now viewed their children as equal in status to those of Rachel and Leah.  See מעשה ראובן ובלהה.

בנים

הולדת בני יעקב

A simple reading of Parashat Vayetze suggests that Yaakov sired all 12 of his children in just seven years, with Leah alone bearing seven of the twelve. This chronology is difficult not only with regards to Leah's birthing schedule30 but also because of how it affects later stories In Bereshit. This reading would make Shimon and Levi only eleven or twelve when they decimated Shekhem, and has Yehuda siring the equivalent of three generations worth of progeny by the age of 43.

העדפת יוסף

I. "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ" – How is one to understand Yaakov's favoring of Yosef? Though many assume that Yaakov transferred his love for Rachel to Yosef, the verses offer a different explanation: "כִּי בֶן זְקֻנִים הוּא לוֹ".‎ What does this term mean and what does it suggest about the reasons for Yaakov's love?

II. "עָשָׂה לוֹ כְּתֹנֶת פַּסִּים" – What did Yaakov mean to signify in giving Yosef the cloak? Was he simply showing parental favoritism, or did he have other intentions?

III. פי שניים – בבראשית מ״ח, Yaakov equates Ephraim and Menashe with Reuven and Shimon, apparently granting Yosef's sons tribal status. What is prompting this gift? Is Yaakov once again motivated by favoritism towards the oldest son of his first love, Rachel, or is the choice motivated by other factors? [ראו פי שניים של יוסף for elaboration.]

ראובן ובלהה

בראשית ל״ה:כ״ב recounts that Reuven had relations with Yaakov's concubine, Bilhah. What prompted Reuven, ostensibly a righteous figure, to commit such a deed? The verse also shares that "Yaakov heard" of the deed, but nothing more. How is Yaakov's reaction to be interpreted? How did he relate to Reuven thereafter?  For a variety of approaches to Reuven's deed, ראו מעשה ראובן ובלהה.

שמעון ולוי: מעשה שכם

בראשית ל"ד describes the rape of Dinah and the ensuing decimation of the city by Shimon and Levi. Immediately afterwards, Yaakov sharply castigates them for their deed, telling them "עֲכַרְתֶּם אֹתִי לְהַבְאִישֵׁנִי בְּיֹשֵׁב הָאָרֶץ".  Did Yaakov views their actions  as being only tactically flawed, or also morally reprehensible?33  Either way, what had he planned to do instead?  For full discussion of the incident, ראו חטא שכם ותגובת בני יעקב.

  • Retrieve Dinah – רמב״ןבראשית ל״ד:י״גאודות ר' משה בן נחמן asserts that Yaakov (and most of the brothers) assumed that the Shekhemites would never agree to circumcise themselves, allowing the brothers to take Dinah and leave. Alternatively, if they did agree, the brothers thought to take advantage of their weakness to kidnap their sister.
  • Kill only the guilty – רמב״ןבראשית ל״ד:י״גאודות ר' משה בן נחמן also raises the possibility that Yaakov wanted to kill only Shekhem.
  • Give Dinah in marriage – It is also possible that Yaakov's offer of marriage was sincere and that he did not see a problem in the union as long as Shekhem were to circumcise himself.34 The union of the two clans could have potential benefits and might have been a peaceful alternative to the later military conquest of the land.  

ברכות לבניו

בראשית מ"ט details Yaakov's final words to his sons, where he tells them "אֵת אֲשֶׁר יִקְרָא אֶתְכֶם בְּאַחֲרִית הַיָּמִים". Does this refer to experiences at the end of Yaakov's sons' own lives, events which will occur to their descendants upon their return to the Land of Israel, or what will transpire to the nation as a whole in Messianic times?  What was the overall goal of Yaakov's last will and testament? Was he speaking to his sons as individuals ("בָּנָיו") or as the progenitors of future tribes ("שִׁבְטֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל")? Is his speech a collection of blessings or prophecies? These questions affect how one understand Yaakov's words to each of his sons.

מנשה ואפרים

Did Yaakov have a relationship with his grandchildren, Menashe and Ephraim? On one hand he blesses and grants them tribal status. On the other hand, when Yosef brings them to visit, he does not even recognize them. What motivated Yaakov to bless Menashe and Ephraim more than his other grandchildren?

השוואות לדמויות אחרות

  • יעקב ליד הבאר – What can be learned by comparing Yaakov's behavior and actions when meeting Rachel at the well with others (Avraham's servant and Moshe) who similarly find spouses there?
  • אברהם ויעקב – Avraham is the founding father of the nation, while Yaakov is the patriarch whose offspring literally constituted the "Children of Israel" ("בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל").‎ It is, thus, perhaps unsurprising that the life journeys of the two share several common features. What can be learned from a comparison of grandfather and grandson?  ראו אברהם ויעקב.
  • יעקב ודוד – Yaakov, the father of the Children of Israel, and David, the founder of the dynastic monarchy, are two of the most central figures in all of Jewish history. Strikingly, there are numerous similarities between the general trajectories of their lives and the specific events which befall them.  What do these teach us?  ראו יעקב ודוד.

יעקב באמנויות

Art and music often serve as "modern midrash" on the Biblical text. The artists' choices reflect certain ambiguities in the text and different possible interpretive stances, making a wonderful foil through which to study the original story. Some examples follow: